A misconception of Netorare/NTR fans (A must read to all Vanilla/Harem fans)

[Deleted member 8704544]

I'm a vanilla fan and I don't get your post at all.

i think i was just thinking too hard. it wasn't that deep

 

[sbeve_bupkis]

cuck stuff is about eroticizing feelings of powerlessness, shame, and inadequacy. take a fear (getting cheated on, having a more aggressive or dominant competitor steal your partner). There's no strong distinction between NTR/NTS ("you don't understand, I'm LETTING her cheat on me" ) there's only a strong distinction with netori (which is more of a traditional male power fantasy: stealing someone else's girl).

As another poster described, it's one of the worst things that can happen to you short of death of a loved one. Someone wrecks your shit and steals both the person's love & the invested time and energy. This is magically transmuted through imagination & sexual fantasy into something arousing. A similar example would be conventional female-oriented bodice ripper fantasy. The girlies quite sincerely DON'T want to get kidnapped into sex slavery by a pirate captain in real life. They DON'T want to get raped. They DO enjoy fantasizing about it though. oh noooo, don't make me submit to you, oh noooo <cums>

Fantasy is not an "extra layer" to reality. it is a form of self-hypnosis, an illusion you build in your head while you're chasing that nut. when you bust that nut, the fantasy is spent. it's over. Good porn helps you build that illusion, provides you with the tools if you got no imagination.

Think about the types of NTR that you see posted here all the time

• rich boss who has infinite resources to buy the love interest's affection
• interracial pairings where the bull is stronger and more sexually confident (whether that's black vs white, white vs asian, whatever)
• ugly bastard is not only able to fuck her, but she likes it MORE than regular sex!
• Your college buddy who slept with all the hot girls didn't care about your mousy girlfriend back in the day, but he's visiting and he's horny now

it's all the same shit. "what if there was a dude who was better than you, and your wife/gf chose him instead of you" oh nooooo <cums>

 

[MissCougar]

Does this count as popcorn worthy?

it's that time of day already?

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I was gonna make sure you were here but you are already deep in. I'm too slow.

I'm a vanilla fan and I don't get your post at all.

I don't really get the choices but lots what it is I guess. There should be a "what?" Option.

 

[NdinguSuya]

Why don't you just play the game from the female perspective coz most of you say you like to see the corruption of the girl and humiliation.....if you add the the male MC it changes things coz now you're playing from the cuck's which what y'all like to play

 

[Deleted member 8704544]

Why don't you just play the game from the female perspective coz most of you say you like to see the corruption of the girl and humiliation.....if you add the the male MC it changes things coz now you're playing from the cuck's which what y'all like to play

yes, we also enjoy ntr even if it’s from the female protagonist’s pov. a good examples of this is Nightmare Knight ~Sacred Maiden & Fallen Magic~. the most common thing in this game is that it focuses on the female protagonist’s corruption and is incredibly well-made

 

[MightbeSomeone]

First of all, I'd like to clarify that Netorare/NTR fans ≠ Netorase/NTS fans. NTR fans are mostly the ones who enjoy the corruption of the female protagonist from the POV of the main protagonist, which also gives them the chance to see some hidden/oblivious NTR scenes. On the other hand, NTS fans are what you’d call cuckold/cucks by definition. They like it when their partner aka the female protagonist has a sexual relationship with another person. They’re fully willing to share their partner and want to be humiliated. They self-insert into the male and are submissive to both the partner in infidelity and the one doing the cucking.

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There’s a broad misconception that NTR fans are the cucks, and that’s just not true. NTS fans are the real cucks. Let me clarify that - NTR fans, the ones who also self-insert into the male protagonist to see the female protagonist’s sexual relationship, would either experience a breakup, get ghosted by her, or in rare cases, have the protagonist accept it and somehow enjoy it. The first two fall under NTR. The last one is NTS. Then there’s another term - Netori, which is basically the one who does the cucking. In this case, you play as the person who takes someone else’s partner. You might as well call yourself the bully.

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Now here’s where the stereotypes about NTR fans come in. People start saying stuff like “Oh this is enjoyable because it’s humiliating.”, “This fetish is about eroticizing shame. This is not normal.”, etc. They start talking about how cuckoldry takes deep insecurities and then sexualizes them. Like, watching your partner with someone else while being there and orchestrating the whole thing is supposed to be some mental masochism. But NO! That’s not Netorare/NTR. That’s Netorase/NTS. They are willing cucks who want it. We NTR fans are not like them!

Would you (Vanilla/Harem fans) like it if people said all of you are into incest just because 90% of those stories involve siblings tropes? No, right? Same thing here. The stereotype being thrown at NTR fans is just dumb and needs to stop. Also, I’ll bet my life that like 95–98% of NTR fans would gladly self-insert as the bull, if the bull has a decent personality. Now, some of you might say, “Well if that’s the case, why not just consume Netori stuff? Isn’t it the same?” No. Like I said earlier, only NTR gives that oblivious/hidden feeling that is intriguing and hot. Netorase can try it too, but it’s always conscious and known to the male protagonist. In NTR, it’s not. That mystery and tension is what makes it special. If you still don’t get it, try going through this

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. Your doubts will be cleared, and I guarantee you’ll think twice before calling an NTR fan a cuck ever again.

What people don't get is NTR is someone being stollen.
Classic NTR is King Arthur . Arthur is so busy trying to find the Grail and save the Kingdom that he ignores his queen. And she goes and cheats on him with his best knight and friend.

NTS would be Arthur pushing his wife to openly cheat and enjoying it. Which he obviously does not do

 

[Iexist]

What the fuck did I just read....?

It's threads like these that make me think I should keep away from the General Discussions section sometimes...

But ok. I'll try to treat this with some mild seriousness.

Here's my thoughts on it all. Why should anyone be labeled as a cuck for liking Netorare or Netorase? Like. Uh?

Do you like it in real life? Do you get a significant other in real life and then pressure them to fuck someone else? Do you, in real life, get off the idea of a significant other/family-member/BFF/whatever being taken away from you forever via the power of impossibly good sex that doesn't exist in reality?

Because if the answers to all of these questions is no, then you are not a cuck. You're just someone who enjoys specific types of fictional smut.

As for vanilla/harem-lovers/whatever calling people that like NTR cucks or whatnot... Those people are kink-shamers. They are wrong. They're violating the forum rules. You should just report such incidents as needed and then ignore the individuals that did it, because quite frankly, they're most likely insecure idiots that aren't worth thinking about all that much. You most definitely shouldn't allow their misguided thoughts and opinions to influence your own in any way.

There.

Done.

I'm out. Peace.