Just gonna be straight, that's a crazy take: not everything has to have a hierarchy, and it's possible for every party involved to be equally as awful. Just because Jason and Kabier didn't personally come and abduct Peacewolf doesn't absolve them of intentionally manipulating her, nor does their manipulation excuse her actions; that said, we will never know the exact details of their relationship and whether Peacewolf was already contemplating leaving due to some dirty laundry or if she was just too stupid/unfaithful to be able to convince herself ditching her husband was a shitty move.
I say this as someone who enjoys anthro stuff like this: furries are fucking weirdos. All of us. The idea that anyone just implicitly trusts an online self-proclaimed furry about advice on their personal life/relationships is utterly insane to me. It's the same level of naivety as looking at the 300lb dude wearing a magical girl outfit and a buttplug tail while just out shopping and thinking "that dude looks like prime boyfriend material!"
While I don't know any specific details, if she wasn't being blackmailed or physically abused or something then she is 100% responsible for her own actions. I don't believe in infantilizing adults who should know better. I'll retract this statement if she's like, mentally handicapped or something, though I don't believe that's the case.
If I had to guess, they probably did the classic move of slowly chipping away at the relationship by shit talking the husband privately, right? It only progressed that far because she let it happen. They're shitty people, but they had no obligation not to be. She had an obligation to be a good person to her husband. She didn't, and that's why she's worse.
If a random person hurts you, that's a shitty thing to do. If a friend hurts you, that's even worse. If your wife hurts you, then that's REALLY shitty.
Betraying someone is always worse depending on how close you were with the person.
