So it seems like WW will sometimes "slow down" this Mod and MMC can sometimes crash it, could be an EA issue with the latest updates or something else, but that's been my experience so far.
So I decided to just use DD to check things out.
With that said, I don't know if this is an issue, but autonomy seems to work and not work at the same time if that makes sense, especially related to Kinky Plays? My Sims will do stuff to self, but anything related to "Join" with self or others just doesn't really work a lot of the times unless I do it manually.
If I changed the settings to "All Sims" and disable "Non-Household", it will work now, but I noticed something called "Controller" Sims, which I think is what throwing things in havoc? I assume that's for my controlled sim only?
Also not sure if this an issue, but I was able to reduce the chances of my Sims locking up by changing the % values for the different events, I think having multiple events that can trigger at 75% arousal just weren't playing nice (occasionally, even if I trigger an event, the next SAME EXACT event would simply skip itself as if it had triggered already, basically Debuffs but no animation)?
Also, even if a Sims enjoys "rough" play, it seems to reduce their Friendship levels no matter what,, I even tried all the Fetish Traits and Stats combos, I couldn't find anything that stopped loss of Friendship after a bad event.
I know this is confusing, but I remember in the past DD would work pretty reliably.