It was obvious it's kinda shit from the first glance, but i am a stubborn man and i tried to persevere for 2 hours until the game sent me to lupanarium on the main quest, and maybe i am just not very versed at roman names for things but i am capable of checking every area at every time of day to discover there was in fact no lupanarium available to me, and after a heartful "thank god i don't need to play this anymore" i decided to stop.
Two things first, if you fear for the grind you can easily bypass money grind with abusing chariot racing and within 10 minutes you can get enough money to break the game entirely (it just can't show the number properly), and second, women are not exclusive to you, they participate in story orgies (and love it) and you use them to gain stuff from others sexually so you know, too many sausages for some people and relashionships are not romantic in nature.
Aight, meat of the game. You wake up every morning, go gather your resources, visit the places, do pointless repetitive quests to grind exp to get to the next orgy. The worst part of the grind, the one you cannot skip, is in fact the scenes, which actually look fairly decent but you just hold the button to watch a gif and the worst part you have to repeat them a lot to grind out the affection. Just don't max it out with gifts, it can go full circle and reset to zero without leveling affection, game barely functions but you get used to it. This is absolutely horrible and i hope you have a youtube video around to entertain you while you do this if for some reason you decided to play this.
I will give the game credit, there is an ATTEMPT at the story, but the writing and pacing are horrendous and the characters are mostly insufferable. In particular your MC, instead of looking like a veteran centurion after many war campaigns, looks like a korean gay porn star (acts like one too) and he got some... tiger scratch on his ass? I don't know man, roman military campaigns were wild i guess.
I respect the ambitions, but the game is overall kinda shit, filled with pointless grind even if you can circumvent it due to poor design, boring grindable scenes and an honestly pretty laughable attempt at the story, even if i respect the attempt. Just don't, you won't find a lot here.