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Wrong site to ask this kind of question in my opinion. But I guess just wait till November and do no fap. Or just stay away from porn all together for months or whatever long it takes for you. Extreme shit is just a cause of over saturation of porn in my opinion. , If you ate junk food most of your time, burgers and sodas then it will take some time to get used to just water and normal food. it's just a matter of getting used to it again.
- Aug 5, 2020
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Nah, don't do that. You'll just leave yourself with a raw chorizo for a knob when December comes and there's really no health benefit in being so abstemious you have to wash your sheets every day instead of having fun and washing a sock.
See, that's why you need some variety in life. Check out a different genre or try something with enough gameplay to it that strategising keeps you distracted enough that, come evening, you're ready to catastrophically lose a fap-challenge video.
- Oct 13, 2016
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time to redirect your focus on something else.
I usually have my "anime" period. or my "read novels" period or "play aaa game that takes weeks to complete" or something else. one period I only wanted scifi, some period only comedy. so its about that and if your feelings are not responding, u force yourself into something different for awhile. the same with porn. u can focus on reading or focus on a theme and stay there.
another thing is real life. maybe its time to shut down IT and focus on real girls, dating sites or just hang with friend and do other stuff. or like a diet, we can make rules, u can not eat this and that, or only on saturdays Im allowed this. sexuality is the same.
I usually have my "anime" period. or my "read novels" period or "play aaa game that takes weeks to complete" or something else. one period I only wanted scifi, some period only comedy. so its about that and if your feelings are not responding, u force yourself into something different for awhile. the same with porn. u can focus on reading or focus on a theme and stay there.
another thing is real life. maybe its time to shut down IT and focus on real girls, dating sites or just hang with friend and do other stuff. or like a diet, we can make rules, u can not eat this and that, or only on saturdays Im allowed this. sexuality is the same.
- Aug 5, 2020
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Damn right. Sometimes doing some gardening or fixing that leaky tap can be just the refresher you need.
You can't go back to fapping to vanilla shit. Your mind is already tainted. Embrace the dark side. You can still play vanilla games for the story and/or gameplay though.
- Sep 13, 2016
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I'd say enjoy while you can. There is no such thing as "too extreme" in fantasy.
Unless you are one of those people that can't distinguish fantasy from reality in which case don't be that.
Unless you are one of those people that can't distinguish fantasy from reality in which case don't be that.
"Planting one's seeds"
"Calling the plumber"
You're still talking about porn, aren't you.
Take a break from porn entirely, then if you go back to it the vanilla shit will be stimulating again.
The only time's i'll play a 'vanilla' game is if I want to support the developer somehow if they made a good game. Or it has a waifu from an anime/cartoon I like.
Usually I'd buy 2D scrollers with Monster/Tentacle/Goblin/Zombies because that's my thing. I'd say that's not even extreme in the animated 2d/3d/games sphere.
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I can speak to this somewhat, although not really - I'm still into some really extreme shit. However, if it ameliorates the issue at all (and it may not), today I feel as if I have more control over what I consume than when I was younger.
In my youth, I consumed it all. Anything and everything, without regard to whether it was right or wrong. The only limitation was no gay shit. But even that's debatable as traps and shemales are considered gay by some, though not by me. And while I am 100% correct on that topic and they're all wrong because they're dumb and stupid (and filled with poop, they have poop inside of them), I digress.
Today, my fetishes include even more extreme content than back then, but that extreme content is enjoyed rarely and never too much. I've naturally kept it to a minimum to avoid polluting my rotten mind any further, and it's worked to some extent. I have found that it hasn't affected my regular life or even my enjoyment of ordinary porn at all. I never "have" to fap to it. In fact, often times it's simply so rare that I must collect it. Sometimes, I do enjoy it. It is what it is.
One of the keys, I think, is to have a rock solid mental barrier. If you can easily and thoroughly compartmentalize, it's much less of an issue if at all. Now, you're never going to get rid of that stray or intrusive thought or daydream, and that can be a minor issue since if you never consumed that kind of content, you'd never think about it even in passing. But, it's something you get used to, just like every other random thing that pops into your head. Simply dismiss it and don't let it perturb you.
On another note, willpower is unreliable. It diminishes rapidly and recovers slowly. Discipline and normal, human interaction is vital to ensuring that the part of your organic harddrive dedicated to sick porn doesn't escape and fill in space that would otherwise be empty. So, in short, crunch that shit into a small space, and fill the rest of your brain up with normal stuff. The higher the ratio of normalcy to degeneracy, the better off you will be I think, even if the lockbox holds some dark shit.
In my youth, I consumed it all. Anything and everything, without regard to whether it was right or wrong. The only limitation was no gay shit. But even that's debatable as traps and shemales are considered gay by some, though not by me. And while I am 100% correct on that topic and they're all wrong because they're dumb and stupid (and filled with poop, they have poop inside of them), I digress.
Today, my fetishes include even more extreme content than back then, but that extreme content is enjoyed rarely and never too much. I've naturally kept it to a minimum to avoid polluting my rotten mind any further, and it's worked to some extent. I have found that it hasn't affected my regular life or even my enjoyment of ordinary porn at all. I never "have" to fap to it. In fact, often times it's simply so rare that I must collect it. Sometimes, I do enjoy it. It is what it is.
One of the keys, I think, is to have a rock solid mental barrier. If you can easily and thoroughly compartmentalize, it's much less of an issue if at all. Now, you're never going to get rid of that stray or intrusive thought or daydream, and that can be a minor issue since if you never consumed that kind of content, you'd never think about it even in passing. But, it's something you get used to, just like every other random thing that pops into your head. Simply dismiss it and don't let it perturb you.
On another note, willpower is unreliable. It diminishes rapidly and recovers slowly. Discipline and normal, human interaction is vital to ensuring that the part of your organic harddrive dedicated to sick porn doesn't escape and fill in space that would otherwise be empty. So, in short, crunch that shit into a small space, and fill the rest of your brain up with normal stuff. The higher the ratio of normalcy to degeneracy, the better off you will be I think, even if the lockbox holds some dark shit.
Thats it? They are just drawings, bud. Nothing too dark. Theres really no reason for you to stop unless you cant get it up while having irl sex or are watching illegal stuff or something like that
- Jun 27, 2020
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Take a massive break from sex, porn, h-games and masturbation
might need to be a few months depending on how bad it is
once you have passed a few months your mind should be fresh and slowly start looking at risque pictures i.e instagram models, clothed pornstars, celebs you fancy and see if you start getting turned on, if so it has worked
might need to be a few months depending on how bad it is
once you have passed a few months your mind should be fresh and slowly start looking at risque pictures i.e instagram models, clothed pornstars, celebs you fancy and see if you start getting turned on, if so it has worked