Hey before i recomend this , just a reminder if this is happening it's self induced erectile dysfunction due to over exposure to porn, it's pretty common but serious sign that you are a addict.
Layoff the porn got a month or so , your brain need time to sync with your body.
Anyway : look for themes that don't usually exist in most games. Play for the plot and slow grind
Karryns Prison :
RPGM, play as a warden of a prison ,Voice acted, rape , corruption, sexual harrasment, management system.
Ashly the pirate:
RPGM, you play as a princes trying to save her father , corruption , humiliation, rape
Third crisis
........ Looking for a game to make me super horny (Preferably western style, any genre)