hey guys, how to cope with the feeling of post nut clarity? like what are the measures you take to not feel so bad/sad after the climax?
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Stop fapping, go to your local church, confess your sins and find the light.
Feeling bad is your soul telling you that you're being tempted by the evil, it's time to fight back.
Download and play my games, and you shall never fap again, guaranteed.
Feeling bad is your soul telling you that you're being tempted by the evil, it's time to fight back.
Download and play my games, and you shall never fap again, guaranteed.
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Just have sex with your wife or other women your wife is ok with you having sex with. Works every time!
If you don't have a wife or gf get one, problem solved.
If you don't have a wife or gf get one, problem solved.
Bro i do believe and think the post nut affects more people with a more turbulent relationship with masturbation and porn. Well, if we are talking about masturbation that is.
If we feel miserable after it most probably are internalizing things like:
- "The fuck i am doing with my life".
- "Will i be like this forever?".
- The whole negative stigma with masturbation and pornography.
I think it would only go away when the person gets confident about their sexuality, when they really believe and think like "I am doing this because it arouses me, i am 100% capable of finding sexual satisfaction in any form if i seek so".
Or the short version, as people would say: "What zero bitches does to a mf".
60% of the time it's always the reason.
The only way to improve is to put work in it. Good luck with your life mate.
If we feel miserable after it most probably are internalizing things like:
- "The fuck i am doing with my life".
- "Will i be like this forever?".
- The whole negative stigma with masturbation and pornography.
I think it would only go away when the person gets confident about their sexuality, when they really believe and think like "I am doing this because it arouses me, i am 100% capable of finding sexual satisfaction in any form if i seek so".
Or the short version, as people would say: "What zero bitches does to a mf".
60% of the time it's always the reason.The only way to improve is to put work in it. Good luck with your life mate.
you're mostly correct. my life's been going downhill since 2020. need to get those racks up and work on myself.Bro i do believe and think the post nut affects more people with a more turbulent relationship with masturbation and porn. Well, if we are talking about masturbation that is.
If we feel miserable after it most probably are internalizing things like:
- "The fuck i am doing with my life".
- "Will i be like this forever?".
- The whole negative stigma with masturbation and pornography.
I think it would only go away when the person gets confident about their sexuality, when they really believe and think like "I am doing this because it arouses me, i am 100% capable of finding sexual satisfaction in any form if i seek so".
Or the short version, as people would say: "What zero bitches does to a mf".
The only way to improve is to put work in it. Good luck with your life mate.
Learn to like yourself. Learn to forgive yourself. Do things in your life which make you proud like working out or volunteering. There's nothing wrong with "letting off steam", just make sure it's one part of your life and that you do other stuff which makes you feel better about yourself.
Try to take a break from all the porn stuff. Find something constructive to do. There is something called dopamine detox. Try doing things that are not so much plasurable to you, but have to be done, like some stuff you keep putting for tomorrow. Life is not always about good things, its a ballance between feelings and you have to manage it.
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It'ss not something that's fixable, to some extent you're guranteed to feel it from masturbation, it can stay at the same level or get worse.
You could take a lil break, or maybe rediscover your passions, as in fetishes i mean, since i barely regret a nut when i actually enjoy myself instead of doing it like some day job
happy fapping
You could take a lil break, or maybe rediscover your passions, as in fetishes i mean, since i barely regret a nut when i actually enjoy myself instead of doing it like some day job
happy fapping
Go hermit mode and lift until you're jacked enough that men start hitting on you.
Then you'll know you're ready to woo the ladies.
Then you'll know you're ready to woo the ladies.
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I realize if i go to gym or doing somethink meaningful, i don't need much fap and if i wanted it, then i don't feel sad anymore.
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I can give a very extreme advice that will work 200%, but this is almost extremism
If you're burned out
"Only when you are close to death do you want to live strongly"
"Only in deep darkness does the light burn the brightest"
If you're burned out
"Only when you are close to death do you want to live strongly"
"Only in deep darkness does the light burn the brightest"
I dont have a problem with that.
- Its my body, I can have fun with it however I want. Why would I feel bad for pleasuring myself?
- Thinking about not having a girlfrined or any relationships on the horizon. Porn has nothing to do with it. You are either chosen by someone or not. Its no one's fault. There is no way to like someone you dont find attractive, and there is no way to attract someone with your extra effort.
So relax and have fun. You may be unfortunate IRL, but you still can have your fantasies fullfiled in a video game and its great.
- Its my body, I can have fun with it however I want. Why would I feel bad for pleasuring myself?
- Thinking about not having a girlfrined or any relationships on the horizon. Porn has nothing to do with it. You are either chosen by someone or not. Its no one's fault. There is no way to like someone you dont find attractive, and there is no way to attract someone with your extra effort.
So relax and have fun. You may be unfortunate IRL, but you still can have your fantasies fullfiled in a video game and its great.