How do you deal with the compulsion of hoarding ?

Spiculuz

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I'm running out of storage and I don't know what to do. I have this feeling that if I don't save it and download it now that I won't be able to find it if I want to play it later. I'm considering using cloud storage (google drive or mega) but I don't know if I can keep this up anymore. I have been hoarding for so many years and I haven't even played half of the games that I download. I'm going crazy.
 

fantasmic

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Are we talking just porn games, all games, or games + media (also maybe porn)? The easy solution is "Just get a 16TB hdd," but I can also give tips regarding what works for me.
 
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I literally just get more storage via external drives. Not that I'm using it all but I have a 4tb drive and a 1tb drive. Will get more if needed.
 

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I'm running out of storage and I don't know what to do.

I haven't even played half of the games that I download. I'm going crazy.
Do what I do, buy the ones you really like/love on Steam (if it's on there) or play them completely from here, delete and move on to the next one.

Most of the games I have played aren't even completed. Try to focus on ones that are finished or try to play through the list you have now. That will be the only way to deal with this issue or waste money for more storage and more stuff.
 
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Spiculuz

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Are we talking just porn games, all games, or games + media (also maybe porn)? The easy solution is "Just get a 16TB hdd," but I can also give tips regarding what works for me.
I hoard some animations and games. Buying a hard drive is probably the easiest solution or ill just follow metal panic's suggestion
 

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How I manage games:
-Always delete all incomplete games, except for the ones you are currently playing (like the current week), you are going to redownload them anyways once you are interested because there will be a newer version out.
-Now I do hoard completed games, but the moment I finish one I just delete. I have way too many games I haven't played and rather keep exploring them instead of going back to stuff I've already finished.
 
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I have this feeling that if I don't save it and download it now that I won't be able to find it if I want to play it later.
If your only concern is not being able to find it later, i think you can just improve how you keep organized rather than increasing storage and downloading everything. Click "watch thread," bookmark games using the forum tools or in your browser, keep a spreadsheet or any other document with links and notes... whatever works best for you.
 

fantasmic

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Okay, so here's my tips/attitudes to deal with hoarding porn games:
- Burn it all down. Sometimes it's nice to just delete everything and start from zero. You'll end up building up a huge backlog again in short order, but for a few weeks it'll be nice to play games, delete them when you're finished, and always have spare room.
- Don't even look at unfinished games. I get it: there are some really good looking games on v0.65. But you'll play it, be slightly unsatisfied since there isn't a conclusion (or put up with some jank since it's still in development), then end up playing 1-2 times more. Instead you can devote your time to only completed games. They can have a more satisfactory ending (since they actually have an ending), or you can happily dump it when you realize the poorly-implemented combat isn't just a placeholder.
- Prioritize big (as in GB) games first. There isn't usually a correlation between archive size and playtime, so getting through 1-2 large games can easily clear up 5 GB.
- Buy it. No need to keep a game on your pc when you can always just download a new copy from Steam/DLsite when you get the urge to replay it.
- Only keep the savefile/translation patch. Whether it's a game you want to revisit or something that's still in development, hanging on to just the save file will help conserve space. For Japanese games I bought on DLsite I'll just hang on to the translation patch since they're easy to install these days and take up far less room.
- Abandon games sooner. If you've paid for a game you tend to give it more of a chance, but these days I'll dip out if specific-to-me annoyances are present early on. Maybe the game gets better, maybe it doesn't, but in any case there are dozens of games waiting in the wings with potential to be good from the very beginning.
- Prioritize keeping older or niche games over popular ones. It can be harder to find working links for older or niche games, while popular games tend to still get updated links even when they stop being new.
- Better organization. Some people like bookmarks or watching threads, other have a document or Excel file with information about promising-looking games. I tend to make individual text documents for games I want to remember with some useful information inside (themes, completion status, translation status, if bugfixes are incoming, etc). This is makes more sense with Japanese games since they all have a product code, but there's also Western stuff I've forgotten about until randomly browsing my h-games folder. It's possible I won't be able to find links once I finally get around to wanting to play those games, but in that case I can just wishlist it and wait for a sale (or just play other games; there's always more games).

The same system largely holds true with animations, though I can also save space by converting them to x265.
 

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All of these suggestions are interesting, but are managing the symptoms rather than getting to the root of the behavior. There is something you have experienced or are dealing with that motivates your digital hoarding behavior, which is not dissimilar to physical hoarding. Some people collect every scrap of paper in their lives, some buy a new pair of new shoes by certain designers, some people "pin" every cosmetic Pinterest image, some people download every game they find. You recognize you are frustrated by this situation, so much so that you are reaching out on a forum for help on managing it. Because you are wanting to change your behavior, you should seek someone to discuss your thoughts and experiences to find what is motivating you to save the games.
 
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HerbertIronsides

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I didn't even realize people did this I just delete the games after I am done with them and re-download when they update.
 

hakarlman

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I'm running out of storage and I don't know what to do. I have this feeling that if I don't save it and download it now that I won't be able to find it if I want to play it later. I'm considering using cloud storage (google drive or mega) but I don't know if I can keep this up anymore. I have been hoarding for so many years and I haven't even played half of the games that I download. I'm going crazy.
Rebel against yourself, delete them all NOW. Just do it! The time saved is more valuable than time spent organizing them.

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Most games require you to replay them anyways to see the new content, so the worst case scenario is you download and replay the game again, no biggie.

Porn games get archived on tons of different websites, so you can find them again (just got to be careful the site has a decent rep for not spreading malicious content).
 
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Spiculuz

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Rebel against yourself, delete them all NOW. Just do it! The time saved is more valuable than time spent organizing them.

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Most games require you to replay them anyways to see the new content, so the worst case scenario is you download and replay the game again, no biggie.

Porn games get archived on tons of different websites, so you can find them again (just got to be careful the site has a decent rep for not spreading malicious content).
yeah i'll delete it, i'll probably list it all on a notepad so i wont forget and keep the save files of the games that i finished so i know that i've seen it. thank you guys
 
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Just be more picky, only play games you really are interested in. I stopped playing anything mediocre, I used to do that a lot. Even if I like a game, if I get bored at all I just delete it now.

If you only play 9/10 & 10/10 games you'll be doing yourself a favor.
 

khumak

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Just purge the stuff you like the least periodically. Doesn't take much time to delete a few hundred gigabytes worth of stuff you're probably not really using anyway. In fact I personally just did that yesterday. Poof 300GB free now when before it was less than 30GB free.
 

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3 games at once method has worked for me, try to make them all different genres/engines to avoid burnout, complete them before moving on to the next 3