I was just wondering how you guys find the time and the space around your family to play adult games? Like what excuses do you use to sit on your computer all day away from the family without your partners finding out what’s going on. I used to play these all the time but can’t play anymore or at least no very often. The main excuse I use is that I am just playing normal games on my computer but that won’t fly forever
How do you guys get time and space around family to play these games?
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I live alone.
Beyond that.
We dont talk about porn.
No offends but it sounds to me like you need to grow a spine.
There is no shame in playing porn games.
They are games like any other and if they dont like it.
That is there problem.
My advise.
Simple dont talk about it.
When asked about my day i just make up some bullshit other game i played some time ago.
It isnt like the know anything about games so they dont really ask too many question(they rather have me shut up about games)
Not because i am ashame but because it isnt a topic for polite conversation.
Very much dont ask dont tell mindset.
Also playing games all day isnt healthy.
Take regular breaks.
Beyond that.
We dont talk about porn.
No offends but it sounds to me like you need to grow a spine.
There is no shame in playing porn games.
They are games like any other and if they dont like it.
That is there problem.
My advise.
Simple dont talk about it.
When asked about my day i just make up some bullshit other game i played some time ago.
It isnt like the know anything about games so they dont really ask too many question(they rather have me shut up about games)
Not because i am ashame but because it isnt a topic for polite conversation.
Very much dont ask dont tell mindset.
Also playing games all day isnt healthy.
Take regular breaks.
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I don't have excuses in particular to play adult games in my PC. Especially not while the pandemic was in its boom, my fathers finally understood how useful and necessary can be a computer; One of the few good sides of the online classes. Now I can play games with the excuse of studying and no one will question me. Oh, yeah, one tip: Don't play games everytime and everyday, like the user above me said, take regular breaks. Not only because is not healthy playing all day but also if you don't want to get your excuse gets worn.
Pornography can be really fun, but just like alcohol, tobacco, and coffee can be really addictive. So instead of just playing porn games find another hobby, or don't be a complete liar and play normal games from time to time. The general idea is don't saturating your brain with only porn games. Or pornography in general too.
Pornography can be really fun, but just like alcohol, tobacco, and coffee can be really addictive. So instead of just playing porn games find another hobby, or don't be a complete liar and play normal games from time to time. The general idea is don't saturating your brain with only porn games. Or pornography in general too.
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Easily. I don't have friends.
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You should not, even if you could.
Everything should be done in moderation... Everyone has hobbies or ways to relax in their free time and have some fun, including playing games.
Also, Adult Games are normal games. Adding adult elements to a game does not make them any less normal.
- Jul 12, 2020
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One of the many perks of living on your own. 
Apart from that, only my younger sister knows about me playing these games since we can talk openly to each other about our sex lives, kinks and so on. Otherwise I keep this to myself. Too many people are still judgemental about openly talking about anything sex-related and even guys who openly admit that they watch porn like about 99% of normal men will often think you're weird if you PLAY porn. And since most of my close friends are too vanilla, I keep it to myself.
Although it was a positive surprise to see German PC-gaming magazine Gamestar publish a positive and well researched report on the genre including interviews with some devs a while back. Time are changing for the better, I guess.
Apart from that, only my younger sister knows about me playing these games since we can talk openly to each other about our sex lives, kinks and so on. Otherwise I keep this to myself. Too many people are still judgemental about openly talking about anything sex-related and even guys who openly admit that they watch porn like about 99% of normal men will often think you're weird if you PLAY porn. And since most of my close friends are too vanilla, I keep it to myself.
Although it was a positive surprise to see German PC-gaming magazine Gamestar publish a positive and well researched report on the genre including interviews with some devs a while back. Time are changing for the better, I guess.
ideally she'd already know and that would bind you tighter together.
but while it would be healthy to be honest and inclusive about your fantasies with the other half, it might not work for everyone. only you can know if you need to keep it to yourself or not, some people definitely can't handle knowing. and as most of us older guys know, often 'honesty' is just a cop-out for making the other person feel like shit due to no fault of her own and carry our shit. a good guideline is whether she'll be happier knowing or not.
that said, it could be she's holding out porn secrets too for the same reason, both of you worried what if the other one finds out. probably nothing like your secret porn though, so don't start thinking maybe she secretly likes your stuff too and in a fit of misguided honesty tell her you like watching horses shitting in the mouths of old bearded me. I mean, she might find beards totally disgusting.
but there might be place for some tender probing about what you both like, in a loving and understanding way. getting a little more open, a little bit closer.
probably don't tell your kids about all that horse shitting stuff though.
but while it would be healthy to be honest and inclusive about your fantasies with the other half, it might not work for everyone. only you can know if you need to keep it to yourself or not, some people definitely can't handle knowing. and as most of us older guys know, often 'honesty' is just a cop-out for making the other person feel like shit due to no fault of her own and carry our shit. a good guideline is whether she'll be happier knowing or not.
that said, it could be she's holding out porn secrets too for the same reason, both of you worried what if the other one finds out. probably nothing like your secret porn though, so don't start thinking maybe she secretly likes your stuff too and in a fit of misguided honesty tell her you like watching horses shitting in the mouths of old bearded me. I mean, she might find beards totally disgusting.
but there might be place for some tender probing about what you both like, in a loving and understanding way. getting a little more open, a little bit closer.
probably don't tell your kids about all that horse shitting stuff though.
oh I've seen this movie before...
- Jul 12, 2020
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Well, I guess I asked for it, considering where I posted this.
In truth, my mom (dad was rarely around) really wasn't the type of person you could talk to about sex since she had very (in some cases extremely) conservative views, including that while it was fine for me as a boy to sleep around, my sister was a "depraved slut" for even thinking about casual sex. So naturally my sister came to me with her questions and I did my best to be there for her. It all worked out and she became an adventurous girl who doesn't take shit from anyone and knows how to have fun. In the end, it all comes down to trusting and supporting each other, being able to listen without passing judgement and encouraging people to be themselves instead of letting others tell them what is right or wrong. That goes for everyone, not just family.
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At night is the only time for me. But if I explicitly tell them don't bother me, they actually won't. They learned a long time ago it's better to just listen.
There have been rumors that you are really social with Hestia thoughI like to be asocial so I have a lot of time
- Oct 11, 2018
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I don't know what are you talking aboutThere have been rumors that you are really social with Hestia though
*is also your fault for that*
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I have my own room and my people are aware of my computer addiction (not the porn addiction, although they're probably assuming since I have no gf).
I do still need to be careful whilst getting to the bathroom to clean up the murder scene because someone could walk into the hall way.
I do still need to be careful whilst getting to the bathroom to clean up the murder scene because someone could walk into the hall way.
- Apr 23, 2019
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He asks what I'm doing and I tell him. It's just that simple. I could lie, but I don't see the point in doing so: we are adults, and it's not like I'm cheating on him with someone real, virtually or otherwise. Truth be told, I don't even get sexual satisfaction from the immense majority of these games and just play them because they are free to download.
The only mildly annoying answers I get from him are something like "Fine, but don't forget to do the dishes/walk the dog/fix whatever when you are done"
The only mildly annoying answers I get from him are something like "Fine, but don't forget to do the dishes/walk the dog/fix whatever when you are done"
- Jun 27, 2020
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friends aint an issues but i understand the family one, youll need to pick a time you can play where you wont be disturbed, i.e late at night or very early in the morning depending on their schedule, id also say to put the volume on the lowest and disable moaning sounds if the option is there, if you have a lock on your room use that your advantage, if not then play the games during other activities like showering/changing clothes etc - although if you play h games alot then you may need to be straight up
- Mar 13, 2018
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I personally don't care who is around when I play them (if a person around me is interested then they'll want to watch & know more, but if a person is disgusted or uninterested then they tend not to stick around), but I ALWAYS MAKE SURE TO NOT PLAY THEM AROUND KIDS.
Though most times I end up just being alone or around a person who also doesn't care what I'm playing as long as it's not loud & disturbing them (ye have to be considerate of others, nobody likes being around an arsehole).
Though most times I end up just being alone or around a person who also doesn't care what I'm playing as long as it's not loud & disturbing them (ye have to be considerate of others, nobody likes being around an arsehole).