i need someone to help me delete my reviews

[ABQ45]

hey f95, I hope this is the right place to post my request. but right now I'm in a bad situation, and i need someone to help me delete my reviews

first of all, some context so guys can understand my situation.


last month was the worst time in me and my family's life by far, and I'm still dealing with it now. I got the news that a close family member that I hold dear to me got diagnosed with cancer and it's been with him for months.
when I got the news I had a mental breakdown, so in a fit of rage, self-hate, and guilt ( because I spent my free time obsessing over Porn VNs instead of being with him) i did something stupid, I deleted everything I did on this site and my pc. my posts, and my art, and since I can't delete my reviews I edited them to break the review rules and requested to delete my account just to punish myself.
of course, the next day I snapped out of it and canceled my request for deleting my account and I managed to Salvage what I can from my pc.

my problem now is with my reviews, when I got a warning for Inappropriate reviews, I explain to the moderator my situation and then logged off my account, and I haven't visited this site for close to a month because I was busy dealing with this nightmare that lay on me. fast forward to today. I opened my account to find out I have another warning for Inappropriate reviews and this warning kind of aggressive a little bit (I guess the moderator didn't read my massage), so I fear I might get banned because of it.

I can re-edit my reviews, but that requires me to sit down a play those VNs again so I can give them a proper review, and as you know, I don't have time for it now

so that's my story, I know what I did was stupid, but right now I need help

 

[TheUnforeseenMessenger]

To be perfectly honest, I think the banning is the least of your worries. It sounds like you need to take a break off the internet. I don't mean that in a condescending way. You should get help and there's no shame with that. Knowing when to get help is so important.

 

[Igneel1]

Review warnings are not the same as other warnings you would have a received a notifications too that says got 0 warning points which doesn't add up to anything. Main purpose of the warnings is to just notify users that their review has been removed and you can submit a revised draft that follows the rules through the dm you get from the mod or by opening a ticket. So don't worry

 

[VegitoHlove]

To be perfectly honest, I think the banning is the least of your worries. It sounds like you need to take a break off the internet. I don't mean that in a condescending way. You should get help and there's no shame with that. Knowing when to get help is so important.

Yeah, this. Just take a break. You need some time to sort things. Sorry about your situation.

 

[Dankwank]

I can re-edit my reviews, but that requires me to sit down a play those VNs again so I can give them a proper review, and as you know, I don't have time for it now

so that's my story, I know what I did was stupid, but right now I need help
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You don't have to replay the games.
Now you can rely on the clarity of hindsight to guide your judgement. Edit your old reviews if you've got the energy. Feel free to add commentary about how you were feeling, or why you said what you said. imo admitting to a mistake is rarely bad choice- so I wouldn't beat yourself up too much.
Hang in there bud.

 

[Deleted member 5563201]

I need my reviews to help me delete someone

 

[ABQ45]

To be perfectly honest, I think the banning is the least of your worries. It sounds like you need to take a break off the internet. I don't mean that in a condescending way. You should get help and there's no shame with that. Knowing when to get help is so important.

Yeah, this. Just take a break. You need some time to sort things. Sorry about your situation.

your right, it is the least of my worries, but it is something I need to get it out of my head so I can focus on more important things.
and when things calm down a little bit, I'll definitely seek help from a professional, because I'm surprised that I just destroyed 2 years of my work in less than an hour, I guess I have problems that even I don't know about.

thank you guys,I really appreciate your support ❤❤❤

Review warnings are not the same as other warnings you would have a received a notifications too that says got 0 warning points which doesn't add up to anything. Main purpose of the warnings is to just notify users that their review has been removed and you can submit a revised draft that follows the rules through the dm you get from the mod or by opening a ticket. So don't worry

thank you so much, that's one less thing to worry about ❤❤❤

You don't have to replay the games.
Now you can rely on the clarity of hindsight to guide your judgement. Edit your old reviews if you've got the energy. Feel free to add commentary about how you were feeling, or why you said what you said. imo admitting to a mistake is rarely bad choice- so I wouldn't beat yourself up too much.
Hang in there bud.

I thought about it, but some of those reviews are old, and as you know some VNs gets better with each update and others gets worse. and I review VNs that I liked that unfortunately, didn't get much attention or got undeserved hate during their first release, since I can't support the VNs financially this is the second-best thing to do.

so it wouldn't be fair for the community if I positively reviewed a VN that starts off great and now it's a dumpster fire.

thank you, I really appreciate your support ❤❤❤

 

[TheUnforeseenMessenger]

your right, it is the least of my worries, but it is something I need to get it out of my head so I can focus on more important things.
and when things calm down a little bit, I'll definitely seek help from a professional, because I'm surprised that I just destroyed 2 years of my work in less than an hour, I guess I have problems that even I don't know about.

thank you guys,I really appreciate your support ❤❤❤




thank you so much, that's one less thing to worry about ❤❤❤



I thought about it, but some of those reviews are old, and as you know some VNs gets better with each update and others gets worse. and I review VNs that I liked that unfortunately, didn't get much attention or got undeserved hate during their first release, since I can't support the VNs financially this is the second-best thing to do.

so it wouldn't be fair for the community if I positively reviewed a VN that starts off great and now it's a dumpster fire.

thank you, I really appreciate your support ❤❤❤

Hey, I'm glad that you are honest and open-minded about yourself. That is a great sign. I have a strong belief that you'll overcome those obstacles. After that, you can write bad reviews about more games if you like XD

Mental health is often neglected - and I'm sure everyone has been guilty of that. We just have to remind ourselves that it's okay to take a break. Take the scenic route for a bit. Only then can you enjoy what's around you. We may lurk on these boards, but there's much more to life than just porn, NTR, hentai, and bad game reviews