Also you need to describe reference image and be patient) And i think "reference_only" works better with images that generated with same base model as you use.
I'm still learning how to make AI art but my comp is pretty decent. Ryzen 7 3800X 8-core processor
32gb of RAM (3200mhz)
2T M.2 card
RTX 3060 (12gb VRAM)
However, we can weight the "Side View" higher to make it more meaningful.
To do this, we need to bracket the definition, enter a colon and the desired weight. 1 is the base weight. For example, I want to give "Side view" a weight of 1.4. by raising it. Then I write (side view:1.4). I enter "Pov" and "(side view:1.4)" and these are the results I get: