I don't know what you just said and I am way to lazy to use google translate, so I'll assume you're asking how to get that event.
"Before the Sun comes up" automatically happens after a bunch of main events, so just try around with other girls and whatever to progress in the story.
Yeah sure, can't hate someone if you don't have a reason to (usually).
But Alex is simply voicing the opinion of multiple people. I also didn't really want to reveal any answers, since I consider that half the fun and not paying attention is simply being punished, but I just wanted to fast forward the discussion and not have a debate over the intended soft block mechanic.
And it's not really a bs excuse. If we take Dark Souls as an example, it's meant to be hard and not hold your hand. If you play DS, then you can't really complain about that. Main difference here is, that it's not as well known, so you couldn't have expected that.
It's like ordering a cheeseburger, because you like cheese, but complaining that it's not just bread, meat and cheese.
Yeah sure, it's understandable why you would complain, but really?