So I'll talk about my journey with the game as while it didn't appeal to me it might to you...
I started off fairly normally, got a job in the library, was going to work each day, and so on ... but it quickly got boring as hell, just running through the same washing and going to work and things each day (most people have to do all that crap in real life, it's not exactly fun to then double up on in a game), and then I quit out once I finally got to the club and couldn't get in (didn't want to grind more for clothes and things) ... the defence of this seems to be realism, but if we're being realistic here then a girl can go to the pub alone and be hit on by 10 dudes an hour, you shouldn't have to go to a club to get dicked, there are club events every night of the week in most major cities (and I've never been but I presume this is true in Amsterdam too) whereas it's thurs-sat night here, people's looks aren't a 0 without makeup, you don't need makeup to work in an library, and it probably doesn't improve your looks by 25% of the way to perfection, etc ... eventually I tried just stopping paying rent to see if that'd start some creepy landlord action but it just lead to a bad end.
Anyway, people seem to really dig the game, so I figured to be fair I'd give it a much more through try as I'd only had a few weeks of ingame time with my first shot ... so this time I slapped it on the easiest setting, got a job as a fashion model (the library gig seemed to be making me a bit prudish - which again makes no sense, in fact the way the liberal stat moves in general is very frustrating) and tried to see what I could do ... things do open out one you get to the club, you can flirt with guys and girls and go home with them, occasionally get some group sex if you're offered the coke event, but once you've got the gloryhole up and running you can really pump up your sex experience and things.
But the game is still grindy as hell. I don't mind slowburn games if they're of the visual novel style because things keep moving forward ... but here it's just repeating the same stuff over and over and over again ... only after 40 times of working my model gig was he asking me to take off my underwear, and is like 'oooh I knew you were slutty' - yeah, I've grinded up my reputation (how slutty people know you are) to close to 100, have almost 0 dignity, am literally addicted to cum, and only after so many times of boringly going to work are things even beginning to start up there... luckily after that point people will occasionally proposition you (having seen the videos) but I can still get naked and lie down in a park and have nothing happen, or go completely naked into a men's only sauna and just be flirted with, not gangbanged and stuff.
Despite buying a map, the way to find the sex shop is to stumble across a poster for it, and have that happen when you're open to such things (as she apparently is such a prude she'd run away from it early on, and can't remember it later unless you see it again) ... apparently there's a beach but it never became available to me ... maybe someone at the dance school tells you about it (I was generally too busy with work to go there), or maybe at the church (that moved my stats in the wrong direction so I avoided) ... there very well may be a ton of good stuff in the game I've not found, but if you have to go and trawl through the comments to find how to unlock it all then that's just poor game design... like there's a phone, but the only person that'll pick up if you call them is your employer and that's just to quit ... I presume it actually has a function, maybe if you grind up more relationship points with these people, but if you rarely see them and they won't answer if you call them then I dunno how.
One thing I thought the dev did well was not trying to have gifs and things that always featured the same actress, many games with real porn make that mistake and then they have 0 choice over what happens as they can only follow the path set by the video they're taking bits from ... here he just chooses ones that fit the vibe of what's happening and so is free to bounce around, and it's a much smarter choice.
So yeah, the game element is grindy, unfun, and tiresome ... and the payoff once you've worked on your stats and things just isn't worth it at all, the sex scenes I did encounter never really lit a fire in me or got me off at all ... but people do seem to like the game, so I won't say it's something to be avoided at all costs but maybe make sure you're up for it, as it certainly wasn't for me.