I'm looking for games where you determine whether the heroine wins or loses a battle or whether or not she has sex with someone unwillingly/willing. I believe this falls under one the types of NTR but for the life of me I can' t find it. My main issue is I don't want the heroine to know your doing it... at least not in the beginning, if she finds out near the end or midway you've been leading her astray that's fine or almost preferred.