New to this game and have been doing some searches and I have seen a lot of back and forth concerning NTR. Some people say it is completely avoidable while others say it isn't for certain girls and then more arguements on whether this is true or not. So in the current version is all the NTR completely avoidable, as in you can make it so it doesn't happen?
Also what is this in the mod where it says "NTR Slayer included ( choose: if you want NTR "Yes", otherwise if you choose "No" i promise nothing will change, only the dialogues will be skipped. )" ? So what it is only skipping the dialogue and the scene happens anyway or does it completely cause it to be avoidable?
There's only a handful of scenes that are NTR, though there is debate about what is and isnt NTR.
1 girl (Alexis) has a totally optional NTR path. On the first date don't let a guy hit on her, and then after the date you a dialogue option where you can tell her not to cheat (along with other options). This prevents any possible NTR with her.
1 girl (Samantha) starts off with a fiance/husband, and you have a crush on her. Theres no scenes of her with him but she does mention sleeping with him when they're married. A small group of people consider that NTR. If you let them get married (better choice, more options with it) you are able to get her to cheat on her husband, who is also cheating her.
1 girl (Aletta) is your boss, and is being force to sleep with her boss (Dwayne). If you have not slept with her, and have progressed down another girl's path (Lexi) then you can run into a scene where you and Dwayne fuck Lexi OR Dwayne fucks Aletta while you fuck Lexi. This scene will not happen if you've slept with Aletta at least once. Some people argue this isn't avoidable unless you know ahead of time but now you do.
1 girl (Reona) is a DLC character and not finished content. She has a slut path and an incomplete purity path. On the slut path you catch her coming out of a bathroom with a guy. She basically argues that you never established that you're exclusive. Your character is also probably in multiple relationships at this point. You then have the choice to tell her to only be with you. Some people are not happy that this choice is after she is withe someone else. This will be avoidable with her other path or you can skip the dialogue really fast and pretend it didn't happen as there is no cg for it.
20+ girls have no NTR. Many have optional sharing/harems, and one can be a prostitute but in all cases it is clearly stated and optional.
Also I have no idea about that mod.