These tags are not valid for every character. It would be silly to expect bdsm during sex from Sophie, she is a virgin and hates sex, so a more vanilla sex might make more sense.Nah ignore them lesbian tag was there from the start since your 1st version if they didn't like avoid the game ir ask to avoid it simple .
The main problem seems to be mc and sophie not the lesbian stuff and avoiding characters
Some of those tags fall under femdom or male bondage falls under Bdsm , if they not fucked they are a virgin , so no need to add it.