Non-porn
Night Cascades (fun lesbian supernatural investigation)
Spirit Hunter: Death Mark (You essentially hunt made up japanese urban legends. It's a bit clunky but very fun and creative)
Spirit Hunter: NG (The sequel)
Porn:
Mist is really good. I got very attached to the characters too. The loli tag is for the character in the first image on both lines of screenshots. No clue why they used that tag, she looks petite, but not like a kid.
After the Inferno is also quite neat. It has a super rushed ending though, don't know what that's about.
Depending on your definiton of disgusting, I can also recommend
Now&Then and
Long live the Princess. They have incest and mind control respectively.