we're talking about the delicate task of seducing someone. Generally, if you place any impediments to that yourself or you turn them down for something or you go too far, you do spoil that seduction. In such a case if the game is primarily about the seduction of that character then there really is no way forward after some sort of game inhibiting decision. Have you ever tried saying no to a woman that asked you to have sex with her and see how long or how many times she goes out with you after that? If you're both over 21 in non-virgins that doesn't go over too well. Now you have to deal with her saying no but women don't generally have to deal with the men saying no. By the same token not accepting an invitation to a party would probably be pretty off-putting if you're trying to seduce a woman. Just my two cents. Besides you're requiring the author to take you down some sort of a path and the game that involves you having pissed off the object of your seduction so there really isn't a game after that. Having an alternative storyline where you instead go after somebody else completely changes the scope of the game.
i dont see the point with my comment ...
but they are lots of others possibilities to put something in the game else than a game over. game over is a very frustating part of any game.
and yes, i already have say no multiples time to a women, i know how they react and they dont react all the same.
now imagine yourself, saying no to a women.... and that result in the fact that now you cant go with any womens at all for the rest of your life. because you didnt have follow what your mother asked you to do precisly.
thats exactly the feeling of a game over in a game like that.
at least, its my point of view