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POLL: NTR fans - self insert, roleplay, or third person?

How do you consume NTR stories?

  • Self insert - I want to feel the pain as if it was happening to me.

    Votes: 30 20.5%
  • Roleplay - Try to assume the role of the male MC. It's not you, but you can empathize.

    Votes: 28 19.2%
  • Third person - Just here for the fucked up story of female corruption and depravity

    Votes: 109 74.7%

  • Total voters
    146

desmosome

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Sep 5, 2018
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Personally, I could do all 3 of these and understand the appeal to each style. My default state is the third person mind set, but depending on the type of story and level of writing, I could dip into the more involved way of consuming these stories.

For example, there are first person POV NTR JAVs. When viewing this, I sometimes imagine myself to be the POV character as is intended in these types of porn videos. 'How could you do this to me, you whore!' 'You never show this type of face to me.' So on and so fourth. The usual NTR tropes. I suppose it's on the masochistic side of things, and if I had to explain it, it's the thrill of losing control. Definitely not my default state though. Probably a bit unhealthy if you get too into this lol. I did try to dabble in imagining my GF with some other dude during a shower jerk. It didn't do anything for me, so at least I know that it's more of a detached type of thing than something I fantasize about happening to me.

For the roleplaying, I only do this for extremely well written stories that has protagonists with redeeming qualities. The top example is Thug(Dark) Hero Party. The MC is someone you can root for because he shows perseverance and determination in the face of overwhelming odds. He gets up again and again to try and set things right even though he knows he has no chance of winning. This makes it much easier to empathize, which makes it all the more depressing and painful. It also makes the revenge path at the end that much sweeter and the final true ending incredibly melancholic and poignant.

The default state. Third person/bird's eye view. All I'm interested in is the females getting corrupted. Corrupted enough to abandon their loved ones. There is also moral degeneration where the once noble woman devolve into a sow. There is actually lots of overlap here with the plain old corruption genre. I just feel like the NTR element signifies a higher level of corruption and bigger stakes at play. The suffering of the male MC only serves to fuel the sadistic side in me. It's used to show how far the female has fallen to treat the man she once loved this way. Male Domination, corruption, moral degeneration, coercion, etc. These types of stories where a male dominates a female into becoming a mind broken sex pet is almost a requirement for me in terms of fappability. NTR revolves around these themes almost every time, so it's been my go to fap tags on hentai mangas and videos for a while. The other tags I search for is mind break on hentai sites.

edit: For the poll, pick the one you use the most. Multiple picks if you use them more or less equally.
 
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Pretentious Goblin

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Nov 3, 2017
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I'm actually aromantic, so I could never self-insert in a spouse NTR story. I'm here for the corruption, betrayal, depravity and despair. Hell, I could probably enjoy a cuckquean game almost as much. That said, it does help if I can relate to the MC in some ways. If the MC is some trust-fund douchebag with an Adonis face, the NTR isn't going to be as good as if MC were unattractive and insecure.
 
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Beatrix Kiddo

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NTR "hater" here (I don't shame and almost never complain), but felt like sharing my two cents.

I tried to play some NTR games a few times becasue I love corruption and degradation, but every time I couldn't help but empathize with the MC, after all the story is told from his perspective. And I fucking hate the feelings I get from that. That's why I don't like NTR. On the other hand, I love Netori, I get the same corruption, degradation and depravity without being inevitably forced to feel like absolute shit.

So, if I was a NTR fan it would be as a third person spectator.
 

Yamakasi20

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May 17, 2017
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Well, would choose 1st option, tho not sure is called feeling the pain.
Rather a spectator at the psychological evolution of an honest woman turned slut.
(in RL, did turn quite few gorgeous housewives into sluts... im a bad guy, i guess)
 

Dushniy

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Apr 5, 2021
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Where is the option where you identify as a fat bald guy doing the ntr? I assume many people do that.
 

Doorknob22

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The next update in my own game will allow you to dominate or corrupt a mother in presence of her helpless son. I love games/stories where the protagonist sees his beloved wife (or preferably, his mother BTW) getting corrupted and fucked. I don't care if he's the protagonist or he's a character and the MC/Protagonist is doing the corruption/domination.

I don't understand the poll: either way it's not me, it's some imaginary dude which the sadist in me enjoy seeing humiliated and indirectly dominated.
 

Catapo

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Always third person, I don't see myself as the MC BUT I need some level of empathy to truly enjoy the game.
If I don't care about the male MC then it might as well not even be a NTR game.