Well, I'm not sure if this is going too off-topic, but I have a good example which will answer both these.
If three guys gang up on one person, dramamongering to ruin the chill atmosphere of the server, even cheering when they spent 3 straight hours wasting their lives dogpiling one person to get them to finally snap, the mods all insist that this is normal behavior you would see at any grocery store. They're allowed to be shit-stirring assholes ruining the chill post-nut energy of the server and singling chill, based, and liked members of the server out.
If someone is dogpiled by such guys and tries to report it for the obvious violation of the rules it is, the community managers insist the person actually wanted to waste three hours of their life being relentlessly dogpiled by three asholes with too much time on their hands and a deep-seeded need to overcompensate for their low self-esteem who openly admit they're there to stir up trouble and not to talk about hentai games. You know, because they somehow think it's normal to want to waste three hours of your life being dogpiled by weird maladjusted drama-stirrers who didn't get enough hugs growing up. And I mean, I'm not a masochist, but... should they really be projecting their own masochism onto others? /jk
This isn't official policy, mind. On paper, those assholes trying to stir up trouble and harass chill people just there to play a hentai game are in the wrong and it's against the rules. It's just the rules are not enforced because every single one of the community managers will make this bizarre excuse that reminds me of Gearbox CEO Randy Pitchfork saying a guy he physically assaulted "wanted it and reveled in it."
So, remember, guys! If you're ever in the Kagura Games Discord server to just have chill talks about hentai games, and you get randomly attacked by a group of assholes who openly admit they just want to stir shit up and ruin your chill time, YOU are the one in the wrong for not wanting them to attack you, and THEY are in the right for using the Kagura Games server for something it wasn't intended for. At least three different community managers have said so openly, and the CEO stands by them.