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Okay, let me just say that while we should not go into a tirade of insults that often in NTR discussions, I do believe we are allowed to make a remark/meme/reaction like "Wtf is this?" or "I don't get what great about this." This is what a public forum is for. Saying something is weird or strange should not be counted as kinkshaming, as that is just how we respond to something shocking. If anyone think a confused or put off remark toward their fetish as kinkshame, then they are the one who is too thin-skinned. We all have likes that some people hate, the best thing to do is just stop giving a shit, especially to the more kinky and "out there" fetishes that need to be more thick-skinned.
TL;DR: Don't straight up throwing insult and kinkshame, yes, but not allowing people to say anything slightly negative is just insane. That's like banning people to write a review for a movie just because that person knew beforehand they would hate it.
so like.... someone spent time on this....... someone went out of their way to make....."this"...... so tell me..... why don't we have more kagura games?
Well, I'll admit that it's sometimes blurry where exactly the line goes. And for the record, I don't mean to put every comment in exactly the same category. The puking anime picture reaction for example, which is probably the worst offender, I'd say is clearly over the kinkshaming line. Other comments, some are passable, while some I'd say range in the light-to-medium kinkshaming range, but even the lighter comments add to the piling on effect...
I'm of course not saying you can't say anything negative, but there's a general understanding that there's legitimate constructive criticism and unhelpful non-constructive criticism, which usually consists of rejecting the very premise of something because it's not something you like, like when people go to female protagonist games just to say "female protagonist? No thank you." It would be more like writing a review for a comedy movie that simply stated "why do people make comedies? I don't get it." I'm not necessarily saying I want to outright ban people from doing that, but I do think it's wildly unhelpful (unless of course you actually proceed to provide some insight as to why you feel comedies in general don't work).
So while I admit there's certainly room for difference of opinion as to what type of comments are legitimate on this type of forum and what aren't, to me personally, coming to a thread just to say "this is what you're into? That's just weird" is at the very least tactless, and maybe a bit asinine, and probably qualifies as a lighter form of kinkshaming. No matter what the category is, I always find it a little disheartening and, as I said, very unhelpful to come to a game thread only to find two pages of "wtf is this fetish?!", so I felt like something should be said. Whether I said it as best as it could be said, I'm not completely sure, but I hope I managed to at least convey the gist of it.
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Me: 2022 gonna be a good year 
Also me after seeing 2nd "eating fetish" game after six days into Jan 2022:
Also me after seeing 2nd "eating fetish" game after six days into Jan 2022:
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This is the first time i have seen this fetish. I thought i saw it all.
I was wrong.
I was wrong.
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Pregnancy fetish exist, if these pregnant female (not just bloated belly) using their belly to fight, miscarriage likely would occur.
Dev is actually a good person, they don't want to kill fictive innocent soul for a mere entertainment.
Dev is actually a good person, they don't want to kill fictive innocent soul for a mere entertainment.
Wow, this must be the third or fourth of its kind. In other words, it's an actual species niche rather than an anomaly like chair simulator. Maybe one day, it can develop into a fetish and have its own tag.
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