I think the reason you can't find that update (KB5064081) is because since I posted there have been another newer update released. Windows only allow you to uninstall the latest update you currently have, so it does not show that other one in the list. So first you have to uninstall the latest update, restart your computer, then you should be able to uninstall the other update which is causing the issue with the game. The latest update should be (KB5065426), at least since I posted this comment.
Here are the steps:
1. Uninstall the one with the numbers KB5065426. For me it also had security something in the name.
2. Restart your computer.
3. Now you should be able to uninstall the one with the numbers KB5064081. This is the update that is causing the problem.
4. Restart your computer, again.
Now the game should work without that red screen bug.
It's annoying but this is what has to be done in order to play the game without that bug. In the future there might even come newer updates that you also first have to uninstall.
Another way... I did find a reddit post that suggested you could use a command to directly uninstall older updates without having to uninstall the latest ones first. However I have not tried it, so run that command at your own risk.
Here is what the reddit post said:
Click Start and type cmd in the Start menu search box. Right-click it and click Run as administrator.
In the command prompt, type in the following command format and hit Enter to proceed the process:
wusa /uninstall /kb:Numbergoeshere
