I absolutely love VAM! As many have said, it’s not a game in the traditional sense; it’s more like a 3D/VR engine, used by creators and players to create porn scenes; as such, player experience may vary.
First thing to understand is that it’s not very user friendly and I spent a lot of time just trying to navigate between the menus, download and install some scenes, skins and stuff. Second thing you have to make peace with: unless you have some background as a programmer, you will not create scenes; you’ll have to download content. The creation tool is powerful but not noob-friendly at all.
That being said, if you hold on to make it work and spend some time searching for content adapted to your kinks, it’s the absolute best porn experience available today! Since it’s a very big project, with hundreds of great creators, thousands of scenes and a very dedicated community, I’ll just share here my experience and why I enjoy it so much.
First of all, graphics are truly amazing: the base game is decent, but some modders make honestly fantastic work with textures and animations. The first week after I understood how to install mods and skins, I was completely flabbergasted and severely sleep deprived from fapping exhaustion!
The second element, but certainly the most important is that you need to spend some time to find scenes that make you tick. I can only speak for myself, but I’m awfully depraved and I like my porn pretty spicy; it took me some time to find some content creators who satisfied my degenerate soul. The reason for that is that there are a lot of scenes you can download, and (I think) some keywords are banned. The second reason is that a lot of content creators use Patreon and it’s not easy to find something that correspond to your taste and is free. To be honest, I (had to) became a Patron to three content creators to enjoy their work (without regrets).
But really, the game overflows with great content, from short simple scenes made for desktop users, to very immersive and long scenes with dialogues options, to perfect animation motion capture scenes, sexy dances, interactive training… At the end of the day, if you haven’t found your kink… well, continue the search! Because it is here! Parenthesis: the “game” part is mostly searching for the perfect scene (clown hat, curly hair, smiley face).
Third thing I love about VAM, and another important part of the game is finding skins (characters, dolls…) to play in the scenes you’ve downloaded. It’s like playing a harem game, but as I speak, with more than 6 000 girls to choose from! Besides, it’s pretty easy to change clothes or hairstyles, so if it’s something you enjoy, you can really have fun here. Again, some creators made absolutely ravishing models and the choice is pretty insane; for the connoisseur, some manga-style models are available, and it’s not hard to change a hetero scene into a gay scene if you want to. However, some scenes and models need some fiddling with the body size to put things where they are supposed to go (or not!).
Everything considered, it’s an absolute classic for the discerned gentleman, but you’ll need to work for it. As with many games nowadays, the true value of the game reside in the modding community. Be aware that you’ll need a decent computer to make the game work with high fps. I haven’t tried VR, but most things I’ve read about it are very positive.