Why the games and all industrial pornography approach the ntr/cuckold content as infidelity, if the fetish is masculine and consented?

[matthww]

The majority games\manga\novels about NTR is more like netorare (infidelity in general) or netori (cheating). In particular, I don't see much difference between the netorare and netori routes in most games, following a mistake of the pornography industry. But I believe the cuckold fetish is more netorase than you think.

My first argument: this fetish is masculine, not feminine. It's increasingly common to see men talking openly that they wanted to see their wife / girlfriend with other men, but that it breaks her heart (there are reports in the media about this). Most of these men also don't like the idea of being cheated. These facts classify the western 'cuck' fetish more as netoraSe for oriental literature than netori or classic netorare, for me.
Second: Anyone who fantasizes about NTR\cuckold seeks sexual pleasure. There is not much mystery about the fetish, the lover NTR \Cuckold doesn't fantasize about seeing his wives\girlfriends to feel just insecure, it's more like taking pleasure on insecurity.

How to explore that pleasure is the right question. One of the best texts I read about it was written by a Japanese dominatrix, Ava Zhang. The first surprise is that for her, the cucks were well-employed alpha males with great social skills, in search of sexual adventures because traditional sex no longer satisfied them. They wanted to share their wives with other men. Those who didn't succeed in convincing their wives, would go to her (Zhang). For her, these men were looking for a competition that they know they would lose. This is where the subthreads of hormonal competition begin: size matters; sizequeen; bbc; etc. That's because despite social skills, the cuck is physically average\weak. The cuck is a guy with a average\weak (not horrible) shape, average\small dick. https://missavazhang*.com/blog/135?fbclid=IwAR2Ap031dLu6Huqq-meKxsnkB7QRYWkKbmK7IjIIAPs6uxj3sO0pCr9VCI4 (text link here)

The fact is that the cuckold likes to watch or share his wife\fiance\gf with a man with superior sexual performance. Not just watching passively, but being part of the situation. Usually the cuck can kiss passionately his wife, she can be suck him, also is common that he likes penetrates nos wife in cuckold threesome. He has no premature ejaculation. He simply cannot compete with the bull because the vagina is literally loose. (lol) It's scary, but some can't be content to watch it and like to feel the damage.

Finally, in the cuckold forums, there is an interesting thread about corruption. Although most wives resist at first, those who lose their fear, like it and enter the fetish. The result is whether the couple can survive this, otherwise the hotwife can be lose sexual attraction for hubby in long term; she can be dazzled by bull sexual perfomance and neglect the cuck in a threesome (turns sharing/swing in cuckolding); at a high level of corruption can exchanges her husband for the bull or simpply cheating, but if this happening the guy can be restart the process with a new girl

 

[SizeQueenShrine]

What's the deal?

It's simple. The kink is based on masochism/sadomasochism. But instead of using straightforward means, like whipping, bashing, lashing or inflicting physical pain in any other way, it takes more cerebral way to inflict emotional pain, shame and scare. Because it's more interesting and indirect way of suffering.

If being cucked is men's ultimate fear in relationship, as like perspective of raising and supporting other man's offspring due to love interest's infidelity, inevitable cuckoldry as a theme becomes perfect nightmare fuel. If so, you can grasp general notion that you've got a lot of people in society who just like being scared, hence popularity of horror or criminal thriller or other morbid genres in literature or cinema.

And what about sexual horrors and thrillers, pornographic nightmares visions?
Well, there you have it: cuckoldry or even better interracial cuckoldry, which can expand idea even further and bring more of your fears into play.

IR NTR is sexual substitute of lovecraftian Cthulhu mythos with cultists celebrating means of their own destruction. But instead of tentacle monster porn (sorry Japan, Detroit won!), you've got big black cock terror which you can try to postpone or try to shield your woman, but eventually you will fail, because you can't divert catastrophe. But cheer up, because at least you can watch it from glorious first row, with lot of close ups of new lovebirds' genitals in action. She's gonna cheat on you obviously, but if you'll deal with inevitable and accept it, then you can play role of main witness and chronicler of her fall of grace and your own misery and newly found low.

"Oh, what a beautiful ultimate defeat. Let's raise a toast, since you're wife's BBC-broken cunt is chalice for black seed and you're gonna drink all of it, just as a salty reminder, what has happened and will happen forever. Bottoms up, you creampie eating loser!"

Why do people like cuckold stuff? Reason is exactly the same, why they do like to watch movies about world being destroyed, like Emerich's The Day After Tomorrow or The Apocalypse from Bible. Because it's in a way twisted fun to watch how everything you cherish is being wiped out, degraded, destroyed in some kind of epic showdown or eternal conflict with blunt forces of nature. Firstly, it can help you to appreciate more the values which can be lost, but also to deal with a perspective of that possibility. Because in real life, ordinary people are being cheated on, but most of them don't want to think about it, you can try different way and take control in losing control in fantasy.

In fact, if you like to mix fear over relationship with being horny, it's perfect kink for you. This fetish is based on very grounded kind of fear and you can easily build up even more many layers of scare and sadness.

• If you're being afraid of femdom, you can imagine cuckold marriage with dominant wife, who cheats on you and finds more and more degrading ways of humilation for her own sadistic purposes.
• If you're being afraid of social degradation, you can imagine your wife's arc from well reputed classy women to ghetto slut in jungle fever frenzy whoring herself cheaply in most despicable ways, and destroying good relationship with your old friends and families and ending up in criminal thug life, fucking worst scumbags.
• If you're being afraid of dangers of love life, you can imagine your sweetheart falling in romantic love with her bull and observe her expressing true, deeply invested feelings to somebody else.
• If you're being afraid of your own emasculation or warping sexual orientation, you can imagine cuckoldry with some forced-bi, sissy undertones.
• If you're being afraid of raising other's man kid, you're going for breeding scenarios.
• If you're being afraid of your own daughter upbringing, you can bring on "but that's somebody's daughter!" scenario with teenage debauchery under your roof.
• If you're being afraid of physical shortcomings, well that's the reason for BBCs scare.

And so on. You can expand it in every imaginable direction and create long combo of sexual terror and nightmare.

As Dicks wrote:

Now the whole "another culture is coming for us, our stuff, our women" is a trope as old as time, not just in porn but everywhere. It feeds off the natural tribalism we all experience (to some degree) in life.

So add that to the scare list.

You can expand it and go into full political terror dystopia with BNWO or VWD stories.

My angle is a bit different, because I find Size Queens attractive, so IR is one of main kinks, but not exclusive. Double vaginal, fisting, insertion freaks and other girls with greedy cunts trying to push limits of penetration are my type.

I guess the kink kinda works, if you've got second thoughts about it or you're afraid of it effect on other people. It's funny turn on meta, as the

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feeding on insecurities. That's the whole point of it. You could complain about horror movies being too scary. It's not even real critique, but rather unintended praise.

But I agree comics and stories are mostly boring, because authors don't go full depth into psychology and 90% of it is generic and boring as fuck.

Anyway...
Night is dark and full of terrors: