As bad as that is, the ones who think that ANY female character fucking ANY male character in the game is NTR is the worst. These are the people who don't want male characters (other than the player) to exist in the game in any capacity,unless they are gay/dead/completely lacking in agency or virility. It's nearly religious in its fervor.Some folks can't stand even optional NTR -- the mere possibility a character could cheat on some path, no matter if they personally picked that path or not, is enough for them to reduce appeal of the character. It may be very much "them" problem, but it doesn't really help in their situation.