Something I've noticed both on Itch.ios Yaoi NSFW tag as well as well as https://f95zone.to/threads/gay-protagonist-games-list.48900/ that doesn't seem to be as big of a problem with the more female focused games I've seen/played is that %98 of them seem to just be shitty dating sims with no gameplay. Now I don't know if this is just how all h games are, and I just noticed it with yaoi because its a smaller market, or if yaoi fans just prefers those kind of game. Either way I just wish it were easier to find yaoi games with combat systems, be that Oh So Hero/Strange Flesh 'Run Or Rape' style platformers/beat em ups, dungeon crawlers like with Carpetwurm's games, or Dieselmine Style turn based RPGs but gay. Games like this with both male and female enemies are pretty rare too unless its a fem protag, so bonus points if anyone knows about any male protag games like that.
