is futa x male considered gay
It depends on if it cross the gay line you have marked in your mind. Everyone has a different place where they mark the line and the more degenerate porn you watch can move that line farther on the field. But if you gotta question it, that means you see it as gay.
I personally see Futa on Male as an act of role reversal femdom but since it's fiction you can have an actual dick instead of a strap-on which makes it way better. Even better if the dude doesn't enjoy it at all. However I see Male on Futa as kinda gay. It's just straight porn but why you want a big floppy dick on the girl for no reason? There's no objective reason she has a dick, you just wanna see another dick flopping around. I hypocritically give them a side eye when that call it straight.
Most people draw the line at anything involving a male's butt or if the girl has a dick regardless of the fictional content like Futa on Female.
I draw the line at hardcore gay bara bara pissing sex with eating wontons out eachothers assholes. That shits uncalled for.