Well I'm sure coming out of the closet and respecting people's opinions was/is a difficult thing for you. As for the literal definition of "NTR," words and phrases change meanings regularly. Its admittedly a hard concept for me as well, so I have to keep telling myself that words change meanings and often take on additional meanings all the time too. So your not alone in that one regard. As for endings, they are left up to the player when there is a split path. A "true" ending doesn't change over the period of a couple of days. Your love affair wasn't alive long enough to even remotely be considered canon, but keep telling yourself that because I think your internal struggle over this issue is funny. I don't have anything against you personally though, you do you boo; but you should stop trying to force your opinions on others. Learn to agree to disagree.
I never forced my opinions on others, I just said what my opinions are and what I think about the subject, I don't know if you are so used to only talk with people who think the same way as you and any one who has a different point of view from you makes you feel threated and you have a tendency to think that someone is forcing you to something, but we are in a forums talking about games... so of course I will say what I think, that's why I'm here, that's why the whole forum is here, so maybe if you took some one else opinions as something so problematic, maybe a forum on internet isn't the best place for you? I don't know, I feel like you are the one struggling with something here, maybe something from outside this forum. I say it wasn't NTR and you say it was, and that's fine for me. My problem wasn't you or any one in the last 4 pages, my problem was that one guy cried "NTR alarm" and it scared a lot of people from playing the game by being afraid of the worst and I'm pretty sure that if some of those who run away would have played the game, they wouldn't thought it was that bad or NTR at all and now they missed something that they may enjoy. For the last, I never struggled with my "love affair" (weird choice of words, but again, you do you) "not being cannon" anymore, that's actually the thing here, I never struggled when it was 0.23a and now I'm not struggling now in 0.23c, the story was good for me before and it's good for me now, Allaway story is the most beatiful and romantic thing I ever read in a game like this and after that I felt like being exclusive to her and I didn't have any interest to do sis or mom story, I think that 23a was better than 23c (my opinion) and Geeseki's original intention was 23a because you don't work that much in something and call it stupid the next day if you don't believe what you are doing in the first place (again, my opinion), but I was happy before and I'm happy now with the story, I always "win" on this regard, I think that the one "loosing" here was someone else, if some one was, but again, you do you and be as happy as you can.