I didnt mean that as an attack or anything of that kind, but just thinking that maybe there could be an option to say, have a version of the game that has 2x lower res materials? That potentially could help greatly, or maybe the game doesn't really need to load everything (again, just thinking, after all culling and that kind of stuff exists for a reason)
After all, even though that the new gpu's do have more vram, not everyone has a gpu that has more than 6gb, even looking through the steam hardware survey proves that relatively not that many people do have at lease older high end gpus(just to use as some sort of point of comparison)
for example the most popular gpu is nvidia 1060(it counts both models, both 3gb and 6gb) makes 8% of the user base
1650 only has 4gb, just like 1050ti(which also could have just 2gb), both of which take more or less 6% of the userbase
Even the more recent midrange 3060 for laptops, only has 6gb of vram
Only desktop nvidia 3xxx and older flagman gpus have higher ram amount, but there's less people that have them, naturally
Sorry if previous comments offended you, didnt mean anything of that kind