Definition of Harem
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IMO they should know about the others and don't mind that
Even having scenes together
Even having scenes together
- Jun 10, 2017
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Technically and semantically, no.
But in practice, in the scene the word "harem" tend to have became the opposite of "monogamous". This to differentiate games where you can only romance one character at once, and those where you can romance anyone of the available girls during a single play.
- Nov 3, 2017
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I would consider that polyamory, not a harem. To me, harem means they know each other and are loyal to the MC (or whatever character has the harem).
"Harem" like "NTR" have 2 different meanings. What we use those terms for aren't how people in their own countries use them.
Harem in America basically means multiple spouses but in the eastern part of the world (where the term originated from) means multiple love interests regardless of romantic outcome. It's why you see a lot of CN or JP novels tagged harem but only have one end girl.
It's the same with NTR, Americans just don't use either term properly.
Harem in America basically means multiple spouses but in the eastern part of the world (where the term originated from) means multiple love interests regardless of romantic outcome. It's why you see a lot of CN or JP novels tagged harem but only have one end girl.
It's the same with NTR, Americans just don't use either term properly.
- Feb 17, 2021
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To confirm, that means you are romancing them at same time, right? Not group sex of any kind...
no it doesn't, it literally means the house/room where your wives & lovers live together. which is the custom where the term originates from. one man, many wives.
but for VNs etc. it just means you can get all the women instead of having to choose one.
I would go even further than this. The original Harem was meant for all important female members of someone's household. This included not only wives and lovers, but daughters, distant relatives, household workers, and sometimes even young boys. The term wasn't sexual in nature at all. It was a sacred place where women had more privilege, modesty, and protection.
Modern civilization saw this, and some started to make assumptions that it was just reserved for lovers. Maybe in some cases it was, we certainly can't poll every wealthy family in history to make this determination. Certainly the JP hentai/ecchi version of Harem is not in line at all with the original Arabic 'harim', because JP gonna perv.
What it means now in terms of porn is up for debate, but I would argue that many of the same original meanings apply.
All important female lovers of the main character having roughly equal status with and protection of the MC, willing to share him equally. Not all females in the game need to be part of a harem, but those that do are clearly ok with the MC fucking any other in the harem, and being together at the same time with the MC.