ok after reading through some relative threads on LL, I am even more confused with the sims4 community now.
From my experience modding skyrim, LL has always been the more adult-kind of mods place, so I would never consider they have any sort of 'web-policing' thing on judging others fetishes. Regardless of whatsoever drama, as a player I appreciate every single mod creator who devote their enthusiasm and energy, making us a more variate and fun game, which I believe is the key part of keeping a game's community lively.
I have no keen on judging the truth/correctness or picking a side. It's just every worrying to see the overall lack of 'fetish-variety' in the community, and I don't even dare to post anything relative on sims4 LL in case I might unconsciously offend any one.
I'm a little hesitant whether I should jump into sims4 or I should stick with skyrim, the continuity of relationships between npcs was what bought me here, but...
Afterall thank you again for creating DD, so at least there is an option for me if I decide to play the sims4. ( I have to admit if there is no DD, I would literally just cross the sims4 off my list.