Do women love netorare?

zilkin

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And how do they love it? Do they self insert as the girl being taken?
Is it more like harem style hentai for women, where she has options?
 

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I remember a youtuber talking about why she liked a certain kind of netorare. I think it was somthing about the cuck being hypocritical and deserving it.
 

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I remember a youtuber talking about why she liked a certain kind of netorare. I think it was somthing about the cuck being hypocritical and deserving it.
That sounds like justifying cheating to herself kind of reasoning.....

I just like the idea that it's happening to someone else. Very depraved.
You like watching it as a third party observer and probably the moral degradation part of it....
 
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I've never met or even heard of a woman who liked being cheated on. but I'm sure everything exists somewhere.
 
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I've never met or even heard of a woman who liked being cheated on. but I'm sure everything exists somewhere.
In this case "netorare" I am thinking about is the guy gets cheated by an alpha chad or big ugly bastard taking his girl. Girls read those kinds of stories but from their perspective it's not really the same because the girl is the one doing the cheating so me thinks they like it because usually for the girl there is no bad side.
If you are a guy you might feel bad for the guy getting cheated on and identify with the cuck, or read it to get some jealous feeling.. or identify with the dominant bastard....
For girls you are identifying with the girl who gets more sexual options, there is no bad side from girls perspective.
 

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  1. No women like visual porn
  2. No women like porn, at all
  3. Women have completely different sexual interests than men

  4. Don't believe 1-3 - Many women enjoy various genres of porn for the same reasons as why men do and from a myriad of perspectives in enjoying, again same as how men enjoy it. Some want to see female protags as the 'cucked', some enjoy seeing a male protag 'cucked', some self-insert, some do not, etc. They might be varying differences of percentages among the genders on which perspectives are enjoyed by more of each group, but it's not an idea of only men like a certain kind of porn, whereas only women like another. If you like something for some reason and you identify as a man, there are people who identify as women who like it for a similar reason. - and vice versa.
 

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If the perspective is changed to the woman's then it's not NTR.

NTR is also typically consumed by males who consume a lot of porn, those who need more extreme fetishes to get a rise. The women are degraded.

The NTR antogonists are the ugly bastard, the thug and literal animals, if it was for women it would be the handsome, well groomed, wealthy guy, which is a bit too real for NTR consumers.
 

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If the perspective is changed to the woman's then it's not NTR.
I don't know where you got that from, but that's not true at all.
Dlsite, vndb, getchu, and probably every other known sites lists and tags hundreds of female protagonists games as NTR.

Perhaps it should have it's own sub tag, like netori and netorase, but for whatever reason it doesn't as far as I know.
 

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I don't know where you got that from, but that's not true at all.
Dlsite, vndb, getchu, and probably every other known sites lists and tags hundreds of female protagonists games as NTR.

Perhaps it should have it's own sub tag, like netori and netorase, but for whatever reason it doesn't as far as I know.
It could also be from the males perspective or it's just people who mistakenly use it interchangeably with cheating.

It's proper use is a game that invokes sexual jealousy in the player which requires it be from a male perspective, if it was simply cheating, it would have no use.
 

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If the perspective is changed to the woman's then it's not NTR.

NTR is also typically consumed by males who consume a lot of porn, those who need more extreme fetishes to get a rise. The women are degraded.

The NTR antogonists are the ugly bastard, the thug and literal animals, if it was for women it would be the handsome, well groomed, wealthy guy, which is a bit too real for NTR consumers.
I played and read a lot of netorare and in some of them it is from the perspective of the actual netorare victim (guy getting cucked) which is great for getting that jelaous feeling or feeling like a cuck, but in a lot of hentai with netorare tags, the guy getting cheated on is almost not present at all to be a protagonist, he is just there so we know she is cheating.
Now strictly speaking that would be "cheating" not "netorare" tag, but it is still under netorare tag.

I read somewhere a lot of women read netorare. Sometimes the netorare antagonist is a good looking chad, not always a big ugly bastard. I could see women being really into it if the guy doing the stealing is a good looking, dangerous chad. Some women want to be taken by an ugly bastard also, for the forbidden feeling of it. Some women have sex with actual animals so fucking some ugly fat guy is really not that weird.
 
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It's not a case of enjoying netorare more like it doesn't bother me.

I'm not putting myself in the place of a male protag and as long as I see hot women get fucked and the story interests me I don't care who's fucking them.

The only time I purposefully block sharing scenes is for games like Deliverance where I really liked the relationship between the male MC and his wife, Kat. I didn't find the sharing side of their relationship to be worth it.

It also depends on the story and characters. I'm not a fan of cheating for cheatings sake. Adventurous Couple was the best example there. It started off as a couple experimenting with hotwifing and it was pretty hot but eventually just turned into the wife fucking everything with a cock and that was boring.

Exciting Games is pretty good. They play as a couple and bring others in to have fun.

I mainly play these games for the story so if netorare fits the story then I don't mind it as long as it progresses the characters and plot and isn't there just for shock value.

Also what I class as netorare and some people on F95 class as netorare are 2 entirely different things. I only count it if the woman is in a relationship at the time of it happening. If she's single then it's not netorare as far as i'm concerned. She's not in a relationship and can fuck whoever she wants. Again, i'm not putting myself in the male MC's shoes so it doesn't bother me at all.

My biggest issue with netorare is with a group of the anti ntr group. I played Summer with Mia (can't remember what it was renamed to) a while back and the aunt told the MC some sex stories from her youth and some in the thread were calling flashbacks from 20 years prior to the game, ntr. That was some of the dumbest shit i've ever read.

Then there was another thread about a family getting lost. The dad is lost with 2 daughters, the son is lost with the mother. You pick the son or the father and set about getting the girls into bed. You can stop the person you aren't playing as from sexing up who they are stranded with and save them for the MC but, and this still makes me laugh to this day, someone complained because it "feels" like it could be ntr. There is no ntr at all, it was the feeeeeeling of ntr that made them mad.
 

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It's not a case of enjoying netorare more like it doesn't bother me.

I'm not putting myself in the place of a male protag and as long as I see hot women get fucked and the story interests me I don't care who's fucking them.


My biggest issue with netorare is with a group of the anti ntr group.
Are you a woman? So what are your opinions on these 3 scenarios:

A) childhood friend..... guy getting cucked never got into a relationship with good looking girl next door because alpha chad tok her first
B) ugly bastard steals wife.... some fat ugly bastard does blackmail on a good looking wife, husband doesn't know
C) slut wife or gf gets corrupted and fucks multiple guys (shared by more than one guy) behind cuck's back
D) wife or gf gets pregnant from cheating
 

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Are you a woman? So what are your opinions on these 3 scenarios:

A) childhood friend..... guy getting cucked never got into a relationship with good looking girl next door because alpha chad tok her first
B) ugly bastard steals wife.... some fat ugly bastard does blackmail on a good looking wife, husband doesn't know
C) slut wife or gf gets corrupted and fucks multiple guys (shared by more than one guy) behind cuck's back
D) wife or gf gets pregnant from cheating
Avaron1974 is a woman. I am not - but I'm going to answer these for you, because these are easy:

A) Not netorare. First, the guy never had a relationship with the woman - only in his mind and his dreams. And "alpha chad" didn't "take" her first. She didn't find the guy relationship material, but she found the "chad" did. (Also, Avaron1974 already had a similar example with the nephew/aunt scenario - just looking into the past)

B) Not netorare because the husband doesn't know - which removes two of the main criteria for cuckolding, that the target is aware (1) and is affected by it (2). Assuming that the husband/wife relationship is healthy, mutual, and reciprocal, etc. of course.

C) Not netorare, same as B.

D) Depending upon how the husband/boyfriend is involved and the emotions that follow, determines whether or not it's netorare.
 
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Avaron1974

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Are you a woman? So what are your opinions on these 3 scenarios:

A) childhood friend..... guy getting cucked never got into a relationship with good looking girl next door because alpha chad tok her first
B) ugly bastard steals wife.... some fat ugly bastard does blackmail on a good looking wife, husband doesn't know
C) slut wife or gf gets corrupted and fucks multiple guys (shared by more than one guy) behind cuck's back
D) wife or gf gets pregnant from cheating
I am a woman, yep.

A) I don't have much in the way of an opinion on that one. She was single because the guy never made a move, that was his own fault. Is he expecting her to wait around for him forever?

That's pretty much how life goes, it's not just a game scenario. Boy meets girl, boy has no balls so never asks girl out, girl meets man, girl empties mans giant balls, first boy eventually becomes incel and makes rage posts about women on Reddit.

B) This is one of 2 things i'm not a fan of. Fat ugly guys and old men. Even worse if it's combined to fat ugly old men. When they creep on young girls it wigs me out. I've been creeped on by old guys and it makes my skin crawl every single time. Fat guys don't creep me out but it's not what I want to see having sex. I know, lesbian and all that but I don't mind watching a lot of straight sex but I just can't enjoy seeing a hot woman fucking a fat guy.

C and D i'll put together because I have a similar opinion on both. Those I don't mind. Like I said in my previous post, i'm not putting myself in the male MC's place so i'm just watching his hot wife/girlfriend/lover get fucked. Sometimes scenes like that can be hot.

The main issue with netorare as a woman watching those scenes is the fetish is designed to cause jealousy which I don't feel in those cases. These aren't "my" women getting fucked.