do you still play h-games when you're in a relationship?

[drag0nf6y]

i've been wondering, does being in a relationship change how you engage with h-games? not just in a hiding it from your partner kind of way, but more like… do they still hold the same appeal? do you see them differently when you're emotionally or physically fulfilled, or do they just become another form of entertainment, like any other game?

some people say it's just fiction, no different from movies or books, while others feel like it clashes with being committed to someone. what's your take on it?

 

[PrivilegedCholo]

I had to deal with this 2 years ago. In my personal experience I cut off all sorts of porn completely. Not even out of 'conflict' but just from having no desire for any forms of it. While the relationship didn't last I didn't dive immediately back into H games or AVNs it just sort of picked up again but from experience you naturally would put your time and affection into your partner whether its physical fulfilment as you said or other forms of it.

Some 3D Daz female asset ain't got shit on real life ALWAYS remember that. I still like playing 1 or 2 AVNs that I can enjoy or feel turned on by but overall i think the average person can understand that its just fiction coupled with your personal kinks/fetishes. I can like certain games or characters but they are just that to me.

 

[drag0nf6y]

I had to deal with this 2 years ago. In my personal experience I cut off all sorts of porn completely. Not even out of 'conflict' but just from having no desire for any forms of it. While the relationship didn't last I didn't dive immediately back into H games or AVNs it just sort of picked up again but from experience you naturally would put your time and affection into your partner whether its physical fulfilment as you said or other forms of it.

Some 3D Daz female asset ain't got shit on real life ALWAYS remember that. I still like playing 1 or 2 AVNs that I can enjoy or feel turned on by but overall i think the average person can understand that its just fiction coupled with your personal kinks/fetishes. I can like certain games or characters but they are just that to me.

yeah that makes sense, ig for some people it's not even a conscious choice but just a shift in focus. when you're getting that kind of connection irl, the appeal of h-games or any other form of adult content probably fades naturally. interesting that you didn't immediately jump back into it after the breakup too, kinda shows how habits just change over time.

agree on the fiction part too, at the end of the day it's just entertainment with personal preferences mixed in. but do you think your view would be different if your partner was into avns too? like if they played with you or even enjoyed them more than you?

 

[PrivilegedCholo]

yeah that makes sense, ig for some people it's not even a conscious choice but just a shift in focus. when you're getting that kind of connection irl, the appeal of h-games or any other form of adult content probably fades naturally. interesting that you didn't immediately jump back into it after the breakup too, kinda shows how habits just change over time.

agree on the fiction part too, at the end of the day it's just entertainment with personal preferences mixed in. but do you think your view would be different if your partner was into avns too? like if they played with you or even enjoyed them more than you?

hmm I think if anything I might be more weirded out if my partner was into it. On a surface level I'd assume most people consume some form of pornography. While i think its bad no matter what (i know coming from me) being into H games is like more niche. So it would definitely catch me off guard because how deep into the rabbit hole are we talking? Just using this site as a baseline there's so much degenerate shit on here that I never wanna click on. I'd be praying they would be more vanilla than me

As for jumping back in i think that only happens if you're just finding an outlet. Like a FWB sort of thing, that just means your usual urges are just transferred to another person or interest. If we are talking something a little more meaningful then I feel like your habits are more neutered because this is something genuine that you have outside of all the 'stuff'

 

[HardlySoft]

I still do but it kinda hits differently(?) When I’m with someone I usually have zero interest in watching regular porn, as if the desire just isn’t there because my partner already fulfills that. But H-games are kind of a different thing. It’s not just about the sexual content.

Talking about AVNs specifically, I play not only for the sex but for the storytelling, the character development, the worldbuilding, etc. It’s more like consuming a form of adult-themed media than just looking for something to jerk off to.

So yeah, even while dating, I don’t really see them as "porn," at least not in the traditional sense. They're just a part of the type of media I enjoy consuming