Explain why you like your fetish

[natowarhead]

Sure, I'll have a go. There's two I don't sharing about.

- Impregnation
Not necessarily Pregnant and more than Creampie, but the act of insemination or fertilization or... you get the idea.
I grew up in a very christian fundamentalist, kind of culty place. Pregnant women were pretty much the only thing I noticed as a teen that proved sex existed. Rather than pregnancy itself, my mind latched onto the primal urge to Cause pregnancy and magnified it.
Keep your cum shots and facials; My money shot is an X-ray that zooms in on a sperm entering an ovum.

- Immobilization
More than Bondage or Domination. But someone in a pillory, strapped directly to a post, or stuck in a wall.
Like most, forbidden things titillate me. And the relatively small amount of RL bondage I've tried, the only instances it truly added to my excitement were situations where the Sub had Zero chance of getting out without being allowed by the Dom; And that was usually when attached to an anchor or furniture directly. Being completely safe (as you should be in RL setups) yet also 100% reliant on someone else to unlock/untie... love it.
Ok, so I don't really know why I like this one. Maybe I just don't like loose chains or unanchored ropes? Idk.

 

[LewdCatgirl]

Impregnation/Pregnancy/Breeding
It's strange because I don't want kids in real life. And I prefer for the plot to not make it too dark/real either, like don't say the girl has to give up her job to be a mother or something that's just depressing - I prefer something like the system in Hazumi and the Pregnation where the girl doesn't have to actually raise the child.
As for what I like about it; maybe the idea of having slutty sex without caring about the consequences or actively wanting to get knocked up? It's a physical result of having lots of sex that (in these settings where they don't have to raise a kid) isn't awful and negative like stds or whatever. A physical sign that someone is having slutty unprotected sex, especially if they keep getting pregnant over and over again.

 

[Asia Argento]

Impregnation/Pregnancy/Breeding
It's strange because I don't want kids in real life. And I prefer for the plot to not make it too dark/real either, like don't say the girl has to give up her job to be a mother or something that's just depressing - I prefer something like the system in Hazumi and the Pregnation where the girl doesn't have to actually raise the child.
As for what I like about it; maybe the idea of having slutty sex without caring about the consequences or actively wanting to get knocked up? It's a physical result of having lots of sex that (in these settings where they don't have to raise a kid) isn't awful and negative like stds or whatever. A physical sign that someone is having slutty unprotected sex, especially if they keep getting pregnant over and over again.

This. I love this right here. So true and from my resident fellow Zombieland Saga fan too.

Also, to add onto this great and nearly complete point: It's an act of domination if I am the one impregnating. CARRY MY FUCKING CHILD! NOW! and they submit and do it. Nice. Damn nice. Because the woman is submitting to anatomical changes to her body and 9 months worth of carrying your baby. It's a 9 month submission program. "who's baby is it?" "It's shalltear's, they told me to carry their baby and i did." and I LOVE the concept of it.

Also like based LewdCatgirl here, I dont like the idea of a REAL baby. They stink, they cost too much money and they are loud, plus other things I wont say. Also, I dont know if this planet is lasting til their 40th birthday, so whats the point.

 

[desmosome]

My prime fetish for actually fapping is the tropey female instincts thing. Basically the hentai notion that all females are a weak to cocks. Virtuous knights, pious priestesses, loyal housewife, strict teachers, innocent girlfriends, bitchy boss, strongest warrior... they are all just females that will lose to a strong cock in the end and turn into mind broken sluts.

This basic kink that was developed from too much hentai lead to all my preferred tags. Male dom, Ahegao, mind break, NTR, corruption, and anything else that facilitates the theme. I don't care if the MC dominates or if some baddie does it. Just wanna see the women falling to their "female instincts."

I still play a wide variety of games including pretty vanilla ones and realistic scenarios, but not for the fap.

 

[okmedoit2]

I like harem/ reverse gang bang stuff. Especially if some aspect of gentle force is involved. Such as seduction, deception, etc.. Maybe look @ the anime porn Worlds End Harem- that's up my alley.

More makes merrier, like anything you get tired of it no matter what it is if you're made to drown in it (a blonde, big tits) and it's liked being dicked smacked by a variety pack when you involve both numbers and such situations/games. If you tire of that you're dead. I'm at the point of "meh" to many things in life, and that kink still kicks hard. You could take a very "fair" girl and I'd be meh, but make it twins,triplets, or more, like 50 of her, all of sudden she's the most beautiful creature there ever was. Hope they like games too.

 

[kristijanEX]

I don't think you explained why you like NTR well enough, liking the forbidden is a common reason for many porn taboos, not just NTR.

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Well let me explain why I like my fetishes and then you can judge my explanation.

I like surprise/accidental penetration whether it is consensual or not, it's not because it's a taboo since I don't like every sexual taboo, but I would say it's because I always had a preference for fast sex/penetration sex and surprise/accidental penetration is the fastest way to get that. I once saw a porn video, which I'm so mad I can't find, where the plot is that a horror character is chasing an unaware female character, she leans over a stone wall in the forest to rest and the horror character just sneaks up on her and fucks her.

Anime/manga/games/videos that usually feature this niche fetish has some great camera work and I'm a sucker for that as well, I hate it when the camera is stationary from a weird or boring angle, my favorite camera angles would have to be when the guy holds the girls legs up by gripping her by the shins and the camera is placed between her legs and you can see the insertion happening. Prone bone is also awesome when the camera is in front of the girls face and you can see her ass jiggling from in front.

And finally I'd like to explain my fetish for rope thongs/fundoshis and pasties, it just looks naughty and you don't expect it so that's why I like it, there's not really a good explanation, well other than this character might have influenced my love for fundoshis and other similar naughty clothing options back when I was a horny puberty teen that devoured all harem shows :

 

[SteelyDan14]

I like incest (in other media too), but the taboo aspect is only a rather small part of it.

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And to be honest, I'd be more interested to know if anyone doesn't like their own fetish/kinks and why that is.

I avoid all games with incest and unfortunately, there are a lot of them. However, I do make exceptions. Power Vacuum is one... and it's probably because it does not take itself seriously. I also made an exception for Milfy City... and I can't really explain that one although I won't play it again. I felt really uncomfortable with the mother/son thing.

I think, for me, it's because I simply cannot imagine that with my own family. Interestingly, when I was a kid, I had a huge crush on Mary Tyler Moore and my mom looks just like her, yet the thought of gettin' jiggy with my Mom makes me want to vomit and run screaming off a cliff.

One fetish I have a love hate relationship with is anal. For the longest time I hated it and got seriously grossed out when stumbling across it. Then, for some reason, I watched one video with a young Gia Dimarco and I was suddenly hooked. However, I am still selective... gapping grosses me out. If there is a lot of that going on, I start to question my sanity. Also, when they prolapse... omfg... I can't handle that. When I watch just straight, solo anal I do feel conflicted; DP? No problem.

Crazy, I know.

 

[Hagatagar]

One fetish I have a love hate relationship with is anal. For the longest time I hated it and got seriously grossed out when stumbling across it. Then, for some reason, I watched one video with a young Gia Dimarco and I was suddenly hooked. However, I am still selective... gapping grosses me out. If there is a lot of that going on, I start to question my sanity. Also, when they prolapse... omfg... I can't handle that. When I watch just straight, solo anal I do feel conflicted; DP? No problem.

Crazy, I know.

I am totally on the same page with you on that! Although I don't have a too big issue with a little bit of gapping.
That's one of the reasons why I can only half enjoy anal, because in the back of my mind I'm a bit afraid to see more red than I'd like to.

I also have a minor fascination with real (cg or 2d does nothing for me) tummy bulges from insertions, but those are typical through anal insertions and... well... Hotkinkyjo kinda scarred me in that regard.

I avoid all games with incest and unfortunately, there are a lot of them.

As someone who likes incest I have to say, if only that were true.
In almost all western incest games (especially those with incest patches), the family relationships are only in name. They behave more like friends or at most like second-degree relatives (aunt and cousin instead of mother and sister).

But that's kind of interesting actually, both someone who dislikes incest and someone who really likes incest don't get much out of it.

 

[Pervtron3000]

The thought of actual incest is very disturbing to me, but for some reason I can easily disassociate it in a game.
I don't find it hot, but its not something that ruins a game for me.
While it doesn't subtract anything, it does sort of waste potential, if that makes any sense.
Let me try to mathify it.
Sadistic sex scene, where somebody is psychologically or physically harmed = -1 modifier
Vanilla (lol) Incest = 0
Victimless sex = 1
Degenerate victimless sex = 2

If that makes any sense.. basically incest just nullifies it, like wasted potential, but not like "ok uninstall"

 

[Stalker Seducer]

I like NTR (which party doesn't matter), femdom, maledom, incest. After a self analyse here why I think this appeal to me.

The thought of doing something forbidden is arousing. There is something exhilarating to do stuff you are not supposed to do. Binge watch a serie when you are supposed to study, eat snack when you are not supposed to. Following that pattern. Love is supposed to be unbreakable. So it's arousing that the lust for sex slowly overcome the feeling of love. This is why I don't like when the cheating happen to fast. I have to feel the strength the realness of the love to feel how wrong, why it shouldn't happen yet does. (I'm not fan of it but I guess that's why NTR is paired with ugly bastard. Since a downgrade in the partner is also felt as wrong, liking sex so much appearance doesn't matter)

SImilarly for dom stuff, I like the corruption part. When you are being dommed against your will. You disliking it untill you find pleasure. Same thing when you dye an unwilling sheet of white paper. You or the other person, isn't supposed to like

Same reason for incest. I find it easier to fall into. Since there less need for context. The context being self explanatory about why it's wrong why you shouldn't do it.

Here was my thought. I have to precise I don't have huge drive to experience it myself. Especially incest it just doesn't do anything IRL. What about you? What kind of fetish do you have and why?

I have many many fetishes and explaining them all would turn this post into a math textbook length read, so i am going to cover my main fetish/way of life and the one i happen to be named after Yandere. if you want to know about the others let me know.

I find the extreme love and obsession endearing, the jealousy and stalking cute, the clinginess and neediness adorable, and the loyalty is very comforting. i am kind of a weird guy, for me how well a girl fulfills my needs as my girlfriend is closely linked to my sexual satisfaction, so if she is cute and loyal it will make me more sexually interested in her despite not really being sexual traits. but this thread was asking about fetishes so i will now explain the more strictly sexual aspects of Yandere that i enjoy.

The eyes, those god damn Yandere eyes that make her look like a predator hunting her prey. it is so sexy it sends a chill down my spine, here is a good example.

I also love the idea of being kidnapped tied up in a Yandere girl's basement alone with her undivided "attention" for god knows how long nobody coming to save me, only my charm and her whims deciding if i ever get set free again. i am also into bondage and reverse rape so that only adds to the Yandere fantasy.
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Past that i just find most crazy parts of Yandere cute or sexy like cutting stalking blackmail murder etc etc. and i guess as Cliché as it is the danger and illegal nature of Yandere is exciting.

Would i want to explore this fetish IRL ? abso fucking lutely, although my real life tolerance for the fetish is a lot weaker then fantasy. in fantasy i can easily get off to the idea of being tied up in a basement reverse raped forever but IRL that would be inconvenient and i would get bored of it after like 3 days, and things like murder would also be very inconvenient even if my GF doesn't get caught so preferably none of that. for my IRL Yandere GF i would like her to be a lot more bark then bite ... well not literally because i am very into biting, but more like "I'm going to kill that hussy flirting with you" rather then actually killing the said hussy.

hopefully this was useful information and if you have any questions feel free to ask.

 

[Doorknob22]

This sums the source of many of my fetishes.

- Impregnation/Breeding - the man leaves a part of himself in the woman permanently, in a way using her body as an incubator.
- All forms of non consensual sex - Duh
- NTR - the smaller one man's power in the situation, the greater the other man's power (preferably men) is.

 

[♍VoidTraveler]

Explain why you like your fetish

Because i'm a pervert.

 

[Multy2k]

1. Breasts related fetish > lactation, nipple play, adult breastfeeding, tit fuk.
I LOVE Breasts... the softness, the way it feels on my hands, the sweet taste of milk...

2. Harem
I mean... why not? I do not like leaving a heroine behind. The sadness of not being pick is too much for me to see. If there is no harem ending, I always play all routes and try to imagine the harem end after all routes have been completed

3. Creampie
I like the sensation and it just seems to be a waste dumping all that protein elsewhere...

4. Vanilla
If my system needs some cooling down, my brain automatically seeks vanilla... it brings me that warm fuzzy feeling and some of my hope for humanity back...

 

[Stalker Seducer]

1. Breasts related fetish > lactation, nipple play, adult breastfeeding, tit fuk.
I LOVE Breasts... the softness, the way it feels on my hands, the sweet taste of milk...

2. Harem
I mean... why not? I do not like leaving a heroine behind. The sadness of not being pick is too much for me to see. If there is no harem ending, I always play all routes and try to imagine the harem end after all routes have been completed

3. Creampie
I like the sensation and it just seems to be a waste dumping all that protein elsewhere...

4. Vanilla
If my system needs some cooling down, my brain automatically seeks vanilla... it brings me that warm fuzzy feeling and some of my hope for humanity back...

I also read Vanilla Doujin but i can't get off to them at all, i just read them like romance manga

 

[woody554]

most of my kinks are related to a reversal of power relation, I want the weaker to dominate the stronger. and I absolutely hate it if the strong dominates the weaker. (the problem is not dominating the weak but the dominator having no struggle to overcome.)

mostly it means mom/son or brother/OLDER sister, but the core of it is the one being dominated starting as the stronger party. strict uptight moms. I'm not interested in it's taboo aspect per se, although the threat of people finding out works great for me.

other (for me) related kinks I view from the same perspective are all noncon (in fiction only) and con-noncon stuff, bondage, spanking, corruption and so on. real life noncon disgusts me. inducing pain in general disgusts me.

WHY I find this hot and not one of those other similar relations I have no idea. just do. IRL any kind of even vague sexualization of my family disgusts me too much to even think.


other stuff:
-girls crying. I hate mistreatment, but the visual of big sad teary eyes connnects to something similar to woman blowing you on her knees.
-girls struggling to hold their pee. again for me triggers something completely different from piss fetish. I'm disgusted by piss, this is not about that. it's about the girl becoming desperate and struggling in front of the unavoidable failure. also it needs to be her trying to hold it, not someone else.
-pregnancy SCARE. I like impregnation, but for the risk of it not the conquering part.
-orgasm torture. similarly to holding pee I like to see girls bound and helpless, trying to avoid the vibrator taped between their legs but failing. here as well it's important someone else isn't holding, the vibrator should be a sort of blameless neutral party, yet unavoidable. girls on sybian is close to this, but it would really need them being bound to it so that they can't voluntarily stop.


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lot of interesting stuff others posted. many points of view I never thought existed related to those fetishes. thanks for sharing.

 

[gunderson]

First and foremost, because a lot of the threads like this get all judgy about people and, in spite of the OP being cool and just trying to think through the origins of their fetishes, I think this is important to state nonetheless just in case people who do get judgy about fetishes get into the mix: I enjoy the fetish tags I'm into because my genitals think they're fun. I can go into detail on why I prefer some manifestations of the fetish tags I'm into more than others, but that would generally refer to other of my fetishes but not actually explain why I like the specific fetishes themselves, because that's like somebody who doesn't like chocolate asking somebody who does why they like it. Enjoyment is a matter of emotions and not reason. I cannot explain, in a bedrock sense, why some fetish tag interests me rather than some other tag.

So to be perfectly frank, I can kinda just list tags that I think are hot, but as to how they relate I can mostly only speculate. Blood related heterosexual incest, big tits, impregnation/inbreeding, mind control, women having sex with humanoid monsters, women having sex with tentacles, women having sex with non-alien animals, group sex, flashing, groping, embarrassed women being stripped, women being coerced into sex, women losing bets with guys they aren't attracted to for sex but eventually enjoying the sex anyway, deep throating, oral creampies, pussy creampies, heterosexual makeouts...yeah, that's a pretty good list.

As far as speculation goes, I like sex comedies, I like traditional porn, and I wish that sex comedies had gotten more rather than less porny over the years. I like to think of the games I enjoy most as being exactly that: sex comedies with penetration. I think a lot of what I like up there is stuff that would be in a porn game made by somebody with 1980s sex comedy sensibilities. Anything that doesn't fit into that, well, I probably just think it's hot. To any concerned, thinking something is hot doesn't mean that you do it in real life. You are not identical to your desires, and in addition to real-life circumstances often being much less sexy than their fantasized equivalent, you also have self control.

 

[Multy2k]

I also read Vanilla Doujin but i can't get off to them at all, i just read them like romance manga

Well, they are mostly for feels... warm and fuzzy. However I would argue some artist can draw hot enough to be used as fap material.

Example is Mitarashi Kousei sensei with Akiko-san to issho series.

I guess yandere and vanilla tags does not mix very well.

I mostly found more dere in a yandere and vanilla tagged doujinshi.

 

[Stalker Seducer]

most of my kinks are related to a reversal of power relation, I want the weaker to dominate the stronger. and I absolutely hate it if the strong dominates the weaker. (the problem is not dominating the weak but the dominator having no struggle to overcome.)

mostly it means mom/son or brother/OLDER sister, but the core of it is the one being dominated starting as the stronger party. strict uptight moms. I'm not interested in it's taboo aspect per se, although the threat of people finding out works great for me.

other (for me) related kinks I view from the same perspective are all noncon (in fiction only) and con-noncon stuff, bondage, spanking, corruption and so on. real life noncon disgusts me. inducing pain in general disgusts me.

WHY I find this hot and not one of those other similar relations I have no idea. just do. IRL any kind of even vague sexualization of my family disgusts me too much to even think.


other stuff:
-girls crying. I hate mistreatment, but the visual of big sad teary eyes connnects to something similar to woman blowing you on her knees.
-girls struggling to hold their pee. again for me triggers something completely different from piss fetish. I'm disgusted by piss, this is not about that. it's about the girl becoming desperate and struggling in front of the unavoidable failure. also it needs to be her trying to hold it, not someone else.
-pregnancy SCARE. I like impregnation, but for the risk of it not the conquering part.
-orgasm torture. similarly to holding pee I like to see girls bound and helpless, trying to avoid the vibrator taped between their legs but failing. here as well it's important someone else isn't holding, the vibrator should be a sort of blameless neutral party, yet unavoidable. girls on sybian is close to this, but it would really need them being bound to it so that they can't voluntarily stop.


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lot of interesting stuff others posted. many points of view I never thought existed related to those fetishes. thanks for sharing.

Oh yeah i love the contrast of cute little girls dominating big beefy men, sadly i am average height and somewhat skinny with no tiny GF

Also even as a sub by nature, my dom side thinks orgasm torture is very fun to watch

 

[Stalker Seducer]

Well, they are mostly for feels... warm and fuzzy. However I would argue some artist can draw hot enough to be used as fap material.

Example is Mitarashi Kousei sensei with Akiko-san to issho series.

I guess yandere and vanilla tags does not mix very well.

I mostly found more dere in a yandere and vanilla tagged doujinshi.

Yeah i think it isn't technically vanilla anymore after Yandere, which is sad because my favorite are wholesome vanilla style Yandere but there is no "softcore yandere" or "wholesome yandere" tags.

 

[Multy2k]

Yeah i think it isn't technically vanilla anymore after Yandere, which is sad because my favorite are wholesome vanilla style Yandere but there is no "softcore yandere" or "wholesome yandere" tags.

Found one manga that is pretty close to a softcore yandere

[Echizen Bugyousho (Aramaki Echizen)] InCha JD Saimin de Chinko no Shihaiken Ubawarechattara, Shin-chan Nannimo Dekinai ne? | Without Control of Your Dick, You Really cannot do anything huh? Shin-chan~