I'm certainly not your mom (thank God), so it's better to take this as friendly advice: if you perceive the expression of someone's opinion as a "defense" of another forum participant, then maybe you should calm down first before reading the answers to your posts, and even more so, writing them? Otherwise, it looks as if you are extremely biased by your opinion and perceive any disagreement as a collective attack.
It's not that I'm against it, it's just that the tone you use in the discussion is not very convincing and makes me doubt your arguments from the very beginning.