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Do you love femdom?

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Crimson Delight Games

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(Much) Darker skin, smaller breasts and no cock for me please :)
Haha sorry, no can do - it's gotta be an amazonian dickgirl; I can only write what everyone on the team already agreed upon, I can't change the scenes on my own. And our scripter likes dickgirls, he'd blow a gasket if I tried to change it. Like I mentioned in a comment above, futas/dickgirls get only ~5% of the overall lewd content budget in our game, they're already a tiny part of it.
Maybe next time though; small boobies and dark(er) skin are an S-tier combo! ;)
with dickgirls I'm not into any of that stuff (as I don't find them 100% female [I don't mean to be negative toward trans people, I just don't find dicks attractive in any way] so there's nothing to worship for me if that makes sense).
Fair enough, I know dickgirls aren't everyone's cup of tea. I'm not personally too keen on them either, but the scene calls for it so I gotta write it to the best of my ability.
I'm fine with verbal humiliation, maybe even some forced facials, bukkake, stuff like that, but with this content mostly in text games when I don't have to see any dicks and can focus on the degradation/humiliation/abuse aspect.
I understand that... and it actually makes a lot of sense - you're attracted to the dominant feminine ideal, and staring at a huge cock ruins the fantasy. I get that. But it's interesting how people who are into dickgirls feel the exact opposite - from some of the research and reading I've done on the topic, their whole attraction revolves around a beautiful dominant woman with a cock between her legs that she can (ab)use to get her way. But I'll stop there, I don't want to derail this into non-femdom topics.
I can't speak for everyone, but I know for sure that many of us ("us" as femdom lovers) is ok with being pegged by a woman with a strap on, but not by a futa/transwoman/etc. Some of course are ok with both, some prefer dickgirls, but what I mean by that is that just liking pegging doesn't equal with liking dickgirls.
This is interesting: I'd have assumed that most femdom fans who were into pegging would automatically be into dickgirls as well (since a functional cock is pretty much just a better dildo, from a purely mechanical perspective), but I stand corrected.
My list operates under similar understanding even though I'm slightly more open in this regard. That is why if there's for example futa content in games like Darktoz's CbDE that game is not considered pure femdom game, but as a game with parallel femdom and futadom routes (as games with optional/parallel maledom, vanilla, gay... routes)
I like that! It makes sense to separate games into purely femdom-driven ones, and games with femdom elements. I guess our game then falls into the second category (we have a dedicated femdom path, with femdom scenes, but the game doesn't revolve around those exclusively).
I think I went completely in a different direction and wasn't helpful at all. Sorry :)
Quite the opposite, you were very helpful! (y)


Firstly, I prefer futa. Futa have both sets of genitals. If they are just a dickgirl/have only the dick, its basically just a shemale, which is okay, but Futa are the best IMO (get the feelings, have a vagina, have a full functioning female body and male characteristics) .
Yeah I'm with you on that one - if I had to choose, I'd always go for futa over dickgirl (vaginas are hot, lmao). But the scene calls for the latter, so I can't change it. Our scripter also prefers dickgirls over futas, and this scene was mostly his idea when we were designing the encounter... he even gave me a lesson in dickgirl/shemale anatomy to make sure I don't fuck it up with the descriptions! :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
My main thing is that prostate massages and actually just anal orgasms are incredible. And while I love pegging, its true that I being submissive like it when *both* sides feel pleasure.
Never tried it, so I'll just take your word for it! ;)
Toys are pretty sophisticated these days, with strap-ons being able to go both ways and vibrating so that you get as good as you give.
I had no idea this was even a thing. You learn something new every day!
That said, I still love/romanticize the idea of both sides feeling incredible pleasure
Agreed. I'm not a fan of scenes where one party abuses and throws away the other like a wet napkin. Unless you're trying to depict something like rape or sadism, it kinda stands to reason that both sides should derive enjoyment from the act. After care ought to be shown in more scenes, even if there's no prior emotional attachment (if I had to pick one archetype from your list as a favorite, it'd be the Mommy Domme). But that's just my personal opinion, and I get that many people get off to sheer brutality. To each their own, I guess.
I like futa a lot and tollerate shemales/dickgirls in so much as they are beautiful (by my standards)
You got a sample pic? :)
I know you like doujins, so I'm guessing you lean more towards the anime aesthetic? I remember that femdom comic you sent me a while ago... oh god what was its name, I have it saved somewhere on my test laptop but fuck me if I rememeber where I put it! :LOL:


If I were to chip in, personally, I genuinely appreciate pegging, but avoid dickgirls like fire. But that might be just me.
Damn, I was way off the mark by assuming that love of pegging = love of dickgirls! :ROFLMAO:
I'll merely say that femdom is a wide umbrella term, and whatever qualifies as "femdom" people arrive at via different ways.
I guess it really depends on who you're asking... and everyone has their own boundaries and definitions. For me personally, as long as it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck! So I'd throw dickgirls/futas under the 'femdom' definition as long as they're acting dominantly and have a female body structure... tho I'm sure there's probably some femdom game out there featuring alien characters which aren't even human, but still look and act like human dominatrices. Asari from Mass Effect get this treatment a lot in various porn clips (there's a metric fuckton of femdom FMVs on PornHub featuring asari, with and without dicks).

Pegging with a strapon, great. Pegging with an actual dick, I'll roll with it if it isn't too in my face. Scenes specifically focusing on cocks and servicing them, I'm skipping over even if the cocks are attached to women.
Fair enough, I get where you're coming from.

other things I could think of seemed like they could fall into those categories, things like toilet slavery, bondage, feet specialist, etc. So any other ideas I am missing?
Definitely feet specialist. It should be its own sub-category, given how many people are into it. You wouldn't believe the amount of requests we got to add a dedicated foot scene after people played through our game's intro CYOA. I think foot fetish is like the second or third most common one after primary female characteristics like tits & ass which (almost) every dude likes.
 
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Mister_M

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sorry, no can do
Profound sadness.

Quite the opposite, you were very helpful! (y)
Happy to help then!

alien characters which aren't even human
I think that for many (or at least for some) penis is still felt as a (more or less) primarly male symbol. So an alien looking creature with a vagina can be femdom (monster girl kinda), but add a dick and it's smth different.

I had no idea this was even a thing.
It's quite popular actually, which makes sense. I'm not into pegging (I generally dislike having anything in my anus :p), but if I'd to be pegged I'd prefer a strap on that will give pleasure to the woman as her pleasure should be - at least imo - more important in "real" femdom scenario.

amount of requests we got to add a dedicated foot scene
Add my request to your collection too :D But no footjobs!
 

Deleted member 1571565

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<snip because long post, but a lot I want to respond to>
I won't answer in any particular order since I tend to write as stream of consciousness, so sorry if it gets confusing on that front.

Firstly, the manga was called "Waruiko Dareda", I quite love that one because it gets pretty extreme, but you can feel the love and affection that is there, although sometimes it manifests in twisted ways ^_^

When you say example, you mean of a dickgirl that is pretty? I do lean towards anime because asthetically they are just made to be pleasing in general, even when they are described as "ordinary" or "plain". If you mean a real life example, its a bit tough because I'm pretty shallow. Basically they have to bare minimum be passable as a woman, which includes voice (that's something where a lot of shemales seem to fail....) There was one gif that I saw a while ago that was very pretty, but darned if I can find it. For an anime-esque version, that wouldn't be hard to find though. Like your example you posted "but with a dick" would be fantastic (she uses Tifa as a base, yeah?). Like honestly, I'm easy in that if you have a very pretty face (and voice), what your plumbing is doesn't *really* matter to me

also I very much know what you mean about foot people. I can't tell you how many times I had to cancel supporting projects because the devs would insist on having polls for content, and the foot crowd dominated. every. single. month.
 

Mister_M

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also I very much know what you mean about foot people. I can't tell you how many times I had to cancel supporting projects because the devs would insist on having polls for content, and the foot crowd dominated. every. single. month.
Yeah, it's bad. And I am one of the foot people. But we need some variety in femdom, there are so many great kinks and scenarios, doing one thing only is boring, plus 99% of femdom games have foot content anyway.
 

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Yeah, it's bad. And I am one of the foot people. But we need some variety in femdom, there are so many great kinks and scenarios, doing one thing only is boring, plus 99% of femdom games have foot content anyway.
Pretty sure I mentioned this in...every femdom thread we've had, but I haven't in this one yet, so I'll Christen this one by saying it here:

I really feel footjobs are so mainstream at this point, its practically vanilla. It's something people who don't want to be saddled with adjectives like "boring" or "plain", so they spice things up by tossing a footjob in, and suddenly you're "kinky". It's basically the safest and most commonly accepted fetish to say you're not vanilla and boring without making people suddenly ostracize you. Lets be real, admitting you're into BDSM or hardcore femdom (oddly enough, not maledom), is pretty equivalent to social suicide if you say it in the wrong company (you could even lose your job), but having a foot fetish? You'll raise a few eyebrows, but if you don't go into too much detail, people won't really think worse of you than if you said "boobs, butt, legs" instead.
 
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Mister_M

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Maybe you should review some game that are tagged "soft"
like Succubus Prison House of Lewd Demons or Monster Girl Quest [Trilogy] and Paradox

Ok some of those game don't have hard femdom act like painfull stuff or else, but they still kill the male character at the end of a lot of scenes, so I think we can call this "hard" ?

or at least create a tag like "MC Death"
Thanks.

These games were added by the previous owner of the Finder and even then he used descriptions given to him by others, since he wasn't a fan of these games. I'll be updating the Finder on Sunday and add the info then.
 

Yukisyoma

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Here is my first attempt at creating a spreadsheet from the games table:
It's pretty barebones so far and may contain some errors (wrong text, text in the wrong column or missing).
I'd like to add hyperlinks to it later, and additional columns for stuff like date uploaded, updated and added to the list and an easy way to search the spreadsheet.
Hope you find this usefull.
 

Mister_M

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Here is my first attempt at creating a spreadsheet from the games table:
It's pretty barebones so far and may contain some errors (wrong text, text in the wrong column or missing).
I'd like to add hyperlinks to it later, and additional columns for stuff like date uploaded, updated and added to the list and an easy way to search the spreadsheet.
Hope you find this usefull.
That's really cool. When you'll finish I can add the link with the info who did the spreadsheet in the OP if that's ok with you.
 
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baxtus

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I had no idea this was even a thing. You learn something new every day!
A Feeldoe, like the one being used in my avatar pic, is basically a two-way strapon minus the straps and can be equipped with vibration, in addition, some strapons can ejaculate fake cum.
 

Crimson Delight Games

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Add my request to your collection too :D But no footjobs!
Interesting. Why do you dislike footjobs? They're the second most requested feature we get after general foot worship, it's almost like the two go hand in hand. Do you not like footjobs in general, or is it more due to content fatigue?

Firstly, the manga was called "Waruiko Dareda", I quite love that one because it gets pretty extreme, but you can feel the love and affection that is there, although sometimes it manifests in twisted ways ^_^
That's the one, thanks! God I kept racking my brain trying to remember it... The search spat it right out when I entered the name; in my infinite wisdom I'd put it in a subfolder named 'RLeafFDomDoujin'! No wonder I couldn't find it! :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
But yeah it's a damn good comic! I'm not super into manga (I prefer the more Western style personally), but that one is so well drawn and has realistic body proportions which is a huge plus! It also covers so many femdom kinks at once and does a great job showing how the girls mess around with the MC. I'm gonna take it to our team meeting tomorrow; I already showed it to the gang when you'd sent it to me, but I'll upload it to our shared server this time, so we have it for future reference.
Like your example you posted "but with a dick" would be fantastic (she uses Tifa as a base, yeah?). Like honestly, I'm easy in that if you have a very pretty face (and voice), what your plumbing is doesn't *really* matter to me
Yeah that's Tifa, the artist just buffed her up. I'll add a note in our design doc for the artists to give our dickgirl a cute face. The Tifa from the pic I posted looks good, but she's a bit mannish in the features department. :LOL:
also I very much know what you mean about foot people. I can't tell you how many times I had to cancel supporting projects because the devs would insist on having polls for content, and the foot crowd dominated. every. single. month.
Ahahaha you should see the e-mails we get! You'd think the whole game should be one giant foot worship festival! :ROFLMAO:
But to be fair all of them are extremely polite and well mannered, I've never read a message or e-mail from a foot fan that was condescending or mean-spirited or in any way rude. They're really nice as far as supporters go! I guess they're smart and play the long game... they wear you down like water, slowly but gently over time, until you finally cave in and give them what they want. Our next release has a long foot-worship/femdom scene, so I guess they won in the end. :sneaky:

A Feeldoe, like the one being used in my avatar pic, is basically a two-way strapon minus the straps and can be equipped with vibration, in addition, some strapons can ejaculate fake cum.
Oh god as if bio-dicks weren't devalued enough, now we're getting totally squeezed out of the market! :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
 

Mister_M

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Why do you dislike footjobs?
I don't know how most think about it (and I'm sure most have different ideas about it), but I know I'm not alone in my belief that footjobs don't work that well in the femdom context, especially harder femdom; personally I don't like them even in the softer one too. Footjobs are mostly about giving a man pleasure by making him cum with feet and in this context it's an activity that's too focused on male pleasure. Even when it's hidden behind some verbal humiliation or the cloak of "how shamefully you cum when I only use my feet" I just don't see it as femdom tbh, but as a woman pleasuring a man with some "kinky", "dirty" talk to make it look less vanilla (basically what Ravenleaf wrote earlier). Of course if we talk about ruined footjob, just teasing without orgasm or using feet to make the guy hard and proceeding with CBT or smth then it's a different story.

For me footjobs are part of vanilla stuff and/or foot fetish (and foot fetish is not a part of femdom per se, there's lot of folks who love feet but aren't into femdom). In the femdom context I'd say I like feetdom or feet domination; kissing, worshiping (sweaty, smelly, maybe even dirty [though I don't like dirty ones personally]) feet as part of showing submission, of being humiliated, tortured even (trampling, slapping, kicking, eating toenails, foot dust...) and it works well with verbal degradation, foot slapping, beating, spitting or just as a break between harder stuff or as a reward for good behavior (as in worshiping your Mistress's feet is an honor and privilege you get to enjoy for being obedient). Obviously there are various scenarios how we can use feetdom, but for me it always works better without footjobs.
 

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Oh, another thing I wanted to mention but forgot: how do y'all feel about dickgirl scenes?

I've gotta write one soon, but I'm wondering how to best approach it. There's a clear power dynamic built into the encounter since the dickgirl in question has a huge cock and is physically larger/stronger than the MC, so it makes sense for him to be the sub in this situation... tho I'm not sure if dickgirls fall under the strict definition of 'femdom'? But from reading the previous femdom finder I've noticed quite a few of you were into pegging (Darktoz's games featured huge amounts of it, and people seemed to like it - especially his amazing CBDE)... so by that definition dickgirls are just the natural extension of the pegging kink?
I don't mind futa or dickgirls in principle but I often ignore games that focus on them for a few reasons. One is that the futa-centred games often have stupidly large dicks, that's almost a guarantee if it's a furry futa game. Another is that futa often go in one of two ways with personalities, it's that they are all hyper aggressive and deceiving, that also borders on transphobic tropes btw, or they are super timid and embarrassed like a Japanese retard-in-Lecherville game. I don't care for these extremes. Oh, and those games centre on fetishes I dislike around like half the time, that's a third. I also prefer to play with a dominant protagonist and futadom rarely allows that.

I think of girlfriend/girl nextdoor more as FLR, so its more of the positive outcome/goal rather than a roleplay, at least for the purposes of why I was asking, thank you though.
Maybe, I think it depends? A girlfriend/girl nextdoor domme could be as cruel as you'd like, I agree it's normally being played soft except where it's part of an NTR plot but I believe there's a game where sissification is enforced by a wholesome seeming "girl nextdoor" girlfriend.

The idea of a failed brat taming to become a domme is interesting but feels like thats more of a switch type, or potential thereof
Not really, if the tamer completely fails at taming from day one it's hard to see how it couldn't be one-sided domination all the way.
 

Yukisyoma

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Here's the updated version of the spreadsheet:
I added hyperlinks to game titles, some punctuation, and columns for when the game was added to F95Zone (in most cases this is the same as release date), when the game was last updated and when it was added to the list.
I based the date added on when the game was first mentioned in the previous thread or in update posts in this one, if it wasn't mentioned - estimated based on its position in the list.
I left out the date of release/last update only for Ai Dungeon/Writeholo and FemDoSLand, since they're harder to find than for games that are on F95Zone.
 

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Ok some of those game don't have hard femdom act like painfull stuff or else, but they still kill the male character at the end of a lot of scenes, so I think we can call this "hard" ?
This is just my personal opinion, but I think it's more useful to look at the degree of humiliation than the degree of apparent violence. Depictions of ballbusting/CBT, reverse ryona with bloodshed or serious injury, or castration are more in line with what I'd called hard (actually I prefer the word "heavy" but don't want to digress) femdom. So I'd say that death by snu-snu is more of a medium situation; if there's no fear or mocking, just soft reverse rape followed by peaceful death, I'd even put it under soft, but I know Succubus Prison isn't that soft.

That's the one, thanks! God I kept racking my brain trying to remember it... The search spat it right out when I entered the name; in my infinite wisdom I'd put it in a subfolder named 'RLeafFDomDoujin'! No wonder I couldn't find it! :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
But yeah it's a damn good comic! I'm not super into manga (I prefer the more Western style personally), but that one is so well drawn and has realistic body proportions which is a huge plus! It also covers so many femdom kinks at once and does a great job showing how the girls mess around with the MC. I'm gonna take it to our team meeting tomorrow; I already showed it to the gang when you'd sent it to me, but I'll upload it to our shared server this time, so we have it for future reference.
I loved Waruiko Dareda too. Definitely one of the best tankoubon-length femdom manga out there, with an excellent balance of story and femdom BDSM, and a satisfying conclusion.
 

Ianuda

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I think it's probably okay to unignore you. My first impressions of you are quite negative, especially since while I don't remember exactly, but your first conversations bits were rather trollish, or at least appeared that way to me. However it's dumb to just keep that mentality when you've been around as long as you have.
Not really, your first impression was quite correct - I usually manage to get hated by every single community and person I engage with... Of course, I never explicitly try to offend anyone, just speak my mind too much sometimes (fortunately, I tend to take weeks-long breaks).

But thanks for the kind words! I always respected you and your contributions - which are much more than I would ever do. (Although I'm getting there - just these days, I have reciprocated the declaration of war from SuccuDev and am now sharing Virtual Succubus in that thread.)
 
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