While community polling has its place, I'm not sure if it is the best strategy to let the community micromanage your game with ultra-specific polls. The customer is always right, but the customer is also an idiot who doesn't know what he wants. I should know, I've written hyper-autistic posts on this site only to later look back and realize how annoying and non-constructive I was being.
At a certain point, it's better to go with your gut. What do you think is hot? What do you think works? It might not be the same things that I like, but its better to have something genuine than it is to just phone it in. I've seen plenty of games based on fetishes that I'm into, but they still turn out terrible because the actual fetish content is phoned in/made by someone who doesn't understand the appeal.
Basically, just make games that turn you on. Chances are, we're more similar than we are different, and if you really put in the effort your game will find an audience that appreciates it.