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Rennie245

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I know right?! As I said in my initial post, I have nothing against feet - but goddamn, what about the needs of the others? Surely there is developers with the same fetish and mindset as us! Where are they?! Where are the developers that indulge in true pleasure for women, true femdom, and a wide variety of kinks for the pleasure of all?
Femdom University, in the list, has no "oral servitude/worship" tag, but it still has more pussy worship/cunnilingus/facesitting content than games that have the tag. And all those games are old or abandonned.
Part of the issue is that let's be real most femdom games are made by people who want to be dominated not from the point of view of what the woman get's out of it.

Stuff like Pussy worship/Pegging/Orgasm denial or Ballbusting are very common fantasy for women that bearly appear in femdom games, it's about being serviced in a way that's only for you , it's about the felling empowerment that comes from role reversal or simply dominating a person in a way that's not viewed as "Normal" for your gender, it's about taking away and controlling another persons pleasure or about causing pain you can't understand to a organ that can seem just absurd to you.

The biggest downfall of femdom games is that they are about what men want done to them not about what women find fun or hot or pleasurable.
 

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So, I played new Reina's Desire update and, well, it's small. The story moves forward a bit, but there's only 1 femdom(my) scene (not bad depending on your kinks), and the rest is basically getting more info about people.

New update of Healslut went public today, but it's mostly bugfixes. I think there's only 1 new scene, but you need to load old saves.
 

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A question for everyone here regarding the setting of femdom games. Is there a certain type of theme or dynamic that you guys feel have not been properly explored?
Lately I got interested in FLR (female-led relationship) rather than femdom scenarios more. It's less fantasy and play and more of power dynamics. I would like to have more games where you serve women by doing chores, following orders and pamper them rather (the owner doesn't even have to be present in front of the slave). This is in contrast with many games where the Mistresses entertain the sub by playing some kinky games with them, supposedly enjoying the process.
 

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So, I played new Reina's Desire update and, well, it's small. The story moves forward a bit, but there's only 1 femdom(my) scene (not bad depending on your kinks), and the rest is basically getting more info about people.
Thanks for the info, guess I’ll just wait until it’s free and won’t bother w Patrion
 
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Lately I got interested in FLR (female-led relationship) rather than femdom scenarios more. It's less fantasy and play and more of power dynamics. I would like to have more games where you serve women by doing chores, following orders and pamper them rather (the owner doesn't even have to be present in front of the slave). This is in contrast with many games where the Mistresses entertain the sub by playing some kinky games with them, supposedly enjoying the process.
Yess, us starting off as a sort of leader, king, or whatnot, a strong position of power.
And how we lose it. A maid? Another country's queen? etc, I want the fall.. from power to slave, basically.. Queen could use one as a slave possibly, but even better would probably be to become the slave, and the Maid using you as a slave, while you have power. This one I like the most, the maid having power even though you hold the actual power.
Also lots of variables there haven't been tested even yet.. the dynamics.. I bet so many kings before us got ruled by their queens, yet the queen took no damage at all. Not after the reality though, but you get the idea, if its real good, or etc.

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Tell me you played too much Moving Down without telling me you played Moving Down... :WeSmart: :LOL:
I actually hated Moving Down because it did this with a moronic storyline and choices that didn't matter

The Dev took the awesomeness of Lesbian Cuckolding/NTR, and ruined it with utter nonsense story (such as the Wife doing a 180 on first loving the MC, then suddenly basically hating him for really no reason)

It's rare that I hate a game (most just don't interest me, or disappoint me), but I hate that one
 
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Yess, us starting off as a sort of leader, king, or whatnot, a strong position of power.
And how we lose it. A maid? Another country's queen? etc, I want the fall.. from power to slave, basically.. Queen could use one as a slave possibly, but even better would probably be to become the slave, and the Maid using you as a slave, while you have power. This one I like the most, the maid having power even though you hold the actual power.
Also lots of variables there haven't been tested even yet.. the dynamics.. I bet so many kings before us got ruled by their queens, yet the queen took no damage at all. Not after the reality though, but you get the idea, if its real good, or etc.

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Honestly recently I've been playing around a lot more with the idea of coming up with a femdom game centered around a historical setting with a femdom twist. There is definitely potential to be explored between the lines.
 
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Honestly recently I've been playing around a lot more with the idea of coming up with a femdom game centered around a historical setting with a femdom twist. There is definitely potential to be explored between the lines.
I mean, if you spin it hard enough, you could do a remake of the crucible with femdom overtones considering how much Abigail Williams had everyone wrapped around her finger and you can make a damn interesting NTR on what she does to John Smith if you want to go with a female stealing from another woman
 

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I actually hated Moving Down because it did this with a moronic storyline and choices that didn't matter

The Dev took the awesomeness of Lesbian Cuckolding/NTR, and ruined it with utter nonsense story (such as the Wife doing a 180 on first loving the MC, then suddenly basically hating him for really no reason)

It's rare that I hate a game (most just don't interest me, or disappoint me), but I hate that one
I disagree that the whole storyline was moronic - in some aspects it's actually way more thought through than most porn games, and Miron has plenty of writing talent, especially in building atmosphere, creating uniquely and exceedingly unique and twisted humiliation scenarios, and narrating MC's slow descent and transformation from a sorta wimpy, naive and socially submissive regular guy into a mindbroken slave.

That said, I agree with your remark about the wife's 180, (in fact, I'd say Maria was the most inconsistent and unrealistic character in the whole game, and it was obvious that he kinda wrote her with the archtype of her turning into a "bitchy domme" from a "loving wife", without the dev truly thinking about her motivations, thoughts and goals as a character...) so the game could've certainly been better, but I still liked it. (has plenty of hot hard femdom scenes and, as I said, better writing than a majority of porn games by far in spite of its shortcomings) We can agree to disagree on it of course - everbody's tastes differ.
 

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Honestly recently I've been playing around a lot more with the idea of coming up with a femdom game centered around a historical setting with a femdom twist. There is definitely potential to be explored between the lines.
That would be more niche, or how ya spell it. Could probably be fantastic. All the same, I'm all game :)
 
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Yess, us starting off as a sort of leader, king, or whatnot, a strong position of power.
And how we lose it. A maid? Another country's queen? etc, I want the fall.. from power to slave, basically.. Queen could use one as a slave possibly, but even better would probably be to become the slave, and the Maid using you as a slave, while you have power. This one I like the most, the maid having power even though you hold the actual power.
Also lots of variables there haven't been tested even yet.. the dynamics.. I bet so many kings before us got ruled by their queens, yet the queen took no damage at all. Not after the reality though, but you get the idea, if its real good, or etc.

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Honestly recently I've been playing around a lot more with the idea of coming up with a femdom game centered around a historical setting with a femdom twist. There is definitely potential to be explored between the lines.
Oh, yes, this has so much potential! :love:

And it can easily happen even in real history - if you watched series "Borgia: Faith and Fear" from 2011, which is actually a very well-sourced and historically accurate part-Italian production, (there is a more popular "Borgia" Hollywood show which is far less historically accurate and more dumbed down for modern audiences) you'll see plenty of debauched (and sometimes very gory) practices the Italian nobility (and often clergy) was engaged in in the early 1500s, including some powerful noblewomen like Giulia Farnese, a former mistress of Pope Rodrigo Borgia. There was a scene in the first season of the show of her literally having paid mercenaries castrate the balls and dick of some thug that I think attempted to rape her (memory is a bit cloudy), and then her bringing his castrated thing on a platter to the pope himself as a war trophy to gloat and convince him to submit to a demand of hers.

You can easily have a story where you're, for example, a European noble that's the heir to some decently important title, that's thrust into a marriage alliance with a far more cunning female noble that attains some blackmail material on you that could perhaps get you disinherited or excomunicated, but chooses not to use it, and instead dommes you in bed and decides to actually help you scheme politically and gain more power than you were even due to inherit, (maybe you're the son of a duke of Lorraine, but you're actually related to the king of France, and she helps you poison and scheme your way to the French throne itself even though you're 8th in line or something like that) because all your political power is actually hers and you start no longer even caring about the original blackmail and, because you were somewhat of a closet submissive since before your marriage, you just crave more of her dominance and start enjoying your new life and position! (and obviously the both of you would play a ruse in public to hide the nature of your relationship from wider patriarchal society)

China also had plenty of empresses that ruled from the shadows and administered horrendously gorry punishments to other concubines in the imperial harem, (usually the males would be punished by the emperor himself) but some of the powerful domineering empress dowagers (and you can still make them hot as some of them were 40-something) often even had their emperor sons kneel to them in apologies and punished male ministers or generals that schemed against them with flogging till they bled, death by a thousand cuts, and plenty of other either debilitating or deadly punishments - they could easily have gotten away with having a couple eunuchs or male palace guards as sex slaves, maybe even a minister if you're feeling creative, especially if lots of people feared them and they had a powerful family clan with lots of allies in court. People like empress consort of Han Lu Zhi (who lived about 2200 years ago), did stuff such as, I quote from wikipedia:
" Lü Zhi then had Concubine Qi killed in an inhumane manner: she had Qi's limbs chopped off, eyes gouged out, ears sliced off, nose sliced off, tongue cut out, forced her to drink a potion that made her mute, and had her thrown into a latrine. She called Qi a "human swine" (人彘)."
Do you think a "slaying Queen" like that could not absolutely subdue/scare the crap out of even her emperor husband? :sneaky:

On the topic of China, and the Han dynasty from 2000 years ago specifically, its later period of Eastern Han had several openly bi emperors who kept male "favourites" that they chose to spend the night with alongside their female concubines from the Imperial harem, and even one historical account from Sima Qian, one of the greatest historians of ancient China, that suggests there were also lesbian palace maids at the time.

This is not that relevant to us, but I think a giant ancient Chinese harem could be a perfect setting for a lezdom story as well! There's plenty of Chinese palace dramas I've even watched showing concubines that plot against each other, bully each other (including via slapping, stepping on the hands of other concubines while those are kneeling because they're of lower status in the harem, burning them with hot soups/water/tea etc) and do things that somewhat border on BDSM :LOL: - do you think in real history, when you had hundreds of female consorts and concubines all "belonging to the emperor", living inside mansions in the harem and only being allowed female and eunuch servants, some of these, especially those neglected by the emperor, wouldn't have engaged in lesbian relationships with each other? (obviously Chinese dramas never show such things because of dumb censorship laws of anything gay, but in a porn game one could do whatever...)

You could even integrate it with the bullying and scheming theme, and have a particularly dominant and willfull female consort that originally was just an enemy of MC, (maybe from a rival noble family) but notices MC enjoys being bullied/abused by her, and MC could either turn the tables on her or accept to become her submissive lover and loyal pet, and potetially aid her former tormentor rise through the ranks in the harem and eventually domme even in the emperor and have him groveling at her feet! Or just keep it a secret loving lesbian relationship between 2 concubines, where they have "tea" together many nights and have to not be found out fornicating together, (by the guards, other concubines, maids etc) lest they risk a death punishment for cheating on the emperor. The possibilities, especially for lezdom/lesbian games, are endless in a harem setting, and if you make it light fantasy instead of real history even the "emperor" could be a reigning gay empress...

Ok, I rambled for too long and I'm getting sleepy, but in general I'd love to see more historical femdom and I hope at least some people here found this post interesting! :) I definitely had other historical femdom fantasies too in other settings, but I'm too tired to type more of them now. If you want to share more about your idea, or potentially use one of mine s1ck_dev, (or just parts of it) feel free to ask me about it as I'd love to help make this game idea of yours into reality! Good night everyone!
 
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I disagree that the whole storyline was moronic - in some aspects it's actually way more thought through than most porn games, and Miron has plenty of writing talent, especially in building atmosphere, creating uniquely and exceedingly unique and twisted humiliation scenarios, and narrating MC's slow descent and transformation from a sorta wimpy, naive and socially submissive regular guy into a mindbroken slave.

That said, I agree with your remark about the wife's 180, (in fact, I'd say Maria was the most inconsistent and unrealistic character in the whole game, and it was obvious that he kinda wrote her with the archtype of her turning into a "bitchy domme" from a "loving wife", without the dev truly thinking about her motivations, thoughts and goals as a character...) so the game could've certainly been better, but I still liked it. (has plenty of hot hard femdom scenes and, as I said, better writing than a majority of porn games by far in spite of its shortcomings) We can agree to disagree on it of course - everbody's tastes differ.
One reason I felt the storyline was bad was in my playthrough, I decided to have the MC exit the relationship with his wife, and instead of writing an interesting path for that, such as maybe having the work girlfriend whose place he crashes at slowly become a domme towards him as well, it has a contrived bad end. I mean why even put the option in place if you don't want it to be workable.

But hey, if you found something to like in the game, that's great, but I just couldn't.
 

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Have you guys played Desert Stalker? Is there in femdom in it at all? I like the setting, but if there's femdom in there I can't find it.
I have played it. No femdom, even though the setting is ripe for it. The game if fantastic though, so I would still recommend it.
 
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A question for everyone here regarding the setting of femdom games. Is there a certain type of theme or dynamic that you guys feel have not been properly explored?
I think there's been a lot of themes that haven't really been properly explored, especially as it relates to ballbusting/caging. Here's a few that I can think of:

Male protagonist with a possessive/controlling female interest, that would punish MC for trying to get with other women(whether through cbt, caging or other means of control/intimidation).

Male protagonist with female bullies. I haven't really seen this implemented very well. It usually just falls into foot fetish or a scat situation, with very little cbt. There's no real threat, social or physical, or feels like the MC is always in control of the situation anyway. I think some times it would also be good to have some more subtle bullying for side non-romanticable female characters.

Male protagonist with female rivals. I haven't really seen any femdom used in terms of rivals, where a female character might use her sexuality or some lighter cbt to get an advantage over the MC.

Male protagonist with playful femdom. I haven't seen any situation where a female interest would just like to tease the MC, with no intent to follow up, or use some light cbt at the MC's expense for a quick laugh.

Male protagonist with female that dominates other men. Another situation that I haven't really seen much of. It doesn't always have to be about female characters dominating the MC, because it could also just be interesting to have the option to romance a character that bullies/dominates other men, even if she isn't particularly dominant with the MC himself. Seeing her destroy other men/rivals, or try to include the MC in her actions, could also be pretty interesting.

Male protagonist with female that is knowingly cheating on her bf behind his back, or vice versa with a LI that is cheating on the MC with another character, in a way that is clearly ill intended and where the female character enjoys the fact that she's cucking another dude.


Female protagnists as a femdom character. I've never really seen this done well either. Would be fun to play a female character and have the option to deal with various men in various different forms of domination and humiliation. Maybe you don't like a guy, so you break his balls. Maybe you think another guy is too eager, so you convince him to put a cage on and then torment him with it later.

I feel like I could go on but that's it for now.
 
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Oh, yes, this has so much potential! :love:

Ok, I rambled for too long and I'm getting sleepy, but in general I'd love to see more historical femdom and I hope at least some people here found this post interesting! :) I definitely had other historical femdom fantasies too in other settings, but I'm too tired to type more of them now. If you want to share more about your idea, or potentially use one of mine s1ck_dev, (or just parts of it) feel free to ask me about it as I'd love to help make this game idea of yours into reality! Good night everyone!
I'm not sure if I'd have the courage to put in the work for a femdom VN set in ancient china, considering how homogenous their society used to be it's going to be really hard to get people interested and gather support for the project. I'm currently leaning towards ancient rome due to how viable it is to introduce a bigger variety in the cast of characters.
 

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I'm not sure if I'd have the courage to put in the work for a femdom VN set in ancient china, considering how homogenous their society used to be it's going to be really hard to get people interested and gather support for the project. I'm currently leaning towards ancient rome due to how viable it is to introduce a bigger variety in the cast of characters.
I'm probably way more of a sinophile than your average Joe, so I'm not the most unbiased person out there on this topic :LOL:, but just like games set in a Japanese setting do work and do sell, (Japan is actually way more ethnically and culturally homogenous than China, as China has over 56 ethnic minorities even modernly and was always a colossal multicultural empire, more like Rome, Imperial Russia or India when it was briefly unified) I don't see why something in China wouldn't, especially with the unique circumstances of Chinese imperial harems being like a luxury prison setting, but only for women. (and all the power plays, ceremonial bows and differences in status between the empress, consorts of various ranks and concubines - the rigid hierarchy of Chinese harems lends itself perfectly to themes of domination, humiliation and BDSM in my opinion) China has a rich, fascinating and very well documented history (in fact China and Rome are probably the ancient empires with the best documented histories period, difference being one of them is still around in the 1547 years since the fall of western Rome :LOL:) riddled with powerful and badass female figures, like empress Lu Zhi, Princess general Pingyang of Tang, reigning empress Wu Zetian, pirate captain Zheng Yi Sao (who was an admiral of a flotilla of hundreds of pirate ships) and too many others to list here.

Anyway, I do understand why anybody would want to avoid setting their game in historical China, as it comes with a lot of cultural baggage one has to familiarize themselves with, so maybe a Chinese femdom dev will one day give me this, (or I'll just wind up doing it myself :unsure:) but I respect your decision. I also get you weren't aiming for renaissance Europe, which the first half of my comment talked about, but tbf Rome is also a good setting. Were you thinking about classical Republican Rome, the early empire or the post-Constantine christianised empire? Maybe the later eastern Rome/Byzantine empire? (I assume the first or second option, but just asking out of curiosity - a femdom game in any real historical setting is something I dreamt of playing for years :love:)

Also, just realised you are the main dev for Survival in Draconia - it's a good game I tried a bit recently. The story is pretty short thus far so I can't tell whether I really like your storytelling or not from what I played thus far, but I like the art and some of the femdom scenes, so I'm definitely looking forward to your next project with great interest! :) (and I can still help with ideas if you only have a rough outline - Rome was never my speciality but I am relatively well read on ancient history and I'd say I have a decent well-rounded understanding of it, so DM me if you want help with your idea as, once again, I'd love to play a historical femdom game)
 
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I'm not sure if I'd have the courage to put in the work for a femdom VN set in ancient china, considering how homogenous their society used to be it's going to be really hard to get people interested and gather support for the project. I'm currently leaning towards ancient rome due to how viable it is to introduce a bigger variety in the cast of characters.
While not historical by any strech of the imagination i always figured a femdom version of Eiyu Senki the world conquest would be great. It would be a great setup to have a Female MC in as she could go around subding historical figures then have her way whit them in various ways.

Ivan the terrible was the closest thing to femdom that was in that game.
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While not historical by any strech of the imagination i always figured a femdom version of Eiyu Senki the world conquest would be great. It would be a great setup to have a Female MC in as she could go around subding historical figures then have her way whit them in various ways.

Ivan the terrible was the closest thing to femdom that was in that game.
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I actually remember trying that game ages ago! The one where you play as a female shogun and ridiculously take over an anachronistic fictionalized Earth with figures like Oda Nobunaga, Lu Bu, Napoleon, King Arthur or Ivan the Terrible, but they're all female, right? I honestly couldn't understand how an erotic game with that premise didn't have more femdom scenes, but to be fair I wouldn't really want a femdom/lezdom only remake of it, as the whole premise of that game was a bit of a joke (I mean, the historical figures were from eras apart, and there were even mythical ones like "king Arthur") and just taking a cast of 100% male historical figures and transing them all into women feels even disrespectful to the many powerful and fascinating real women in history! (especially if this would be the only "historical" femdom game out there)

A femdom remake of this game could be hot, but nobody would take it too seriously because of the childish premise of the original game, and I would much prefer a serious, well-written femdom story set in an actual historical setting...
 
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