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Do you love femdom?

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Leo Humilis

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leo5298 said:
It's not that they are "too extreme" at all, it's that they are extreme in a way that I believe makes no sense and poorly suits the theme of femdom. Seems like I had made that clear in my argument but it looks like you chose to ignore that and go with your own narrative. I am quite okay with extreme femdom content, in fact I think a lot of femdom games often don't go far enough. I have even commented as such in the past.

The problem, as I already explained, is that it is extreme in a way that doesn't actually relate to the theme of female domination in an adult novel. If you had a story featuring a woman going into an airport and shooting every man she sees, this would be quite extreme and you could argue that this is a woman using power over men but it also wouldn't actually be relevant to the theme of femdom.
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A Dom/sub relation doesn't even need to involve any actual sexual intercourse as such. It is about power dynamics in a relationship, not about any sexual acts.
 
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My list:
1. Your Place - love the premise and the scenes. Its usage of alpha/beta, relationship and bio points is interesting and efficient.
2. Shadow over Blackmore - the best visuals and worldbuilding from the best femdom game creator.
3. FemCity - love the plot and the characters. There's a lot of futa content (optional) so beware if that's not your thing.
4. Vicious Circle: Femdom Edition - everything one needs from a femdom VN.
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5. Gynocracy - another game about a world with female supremacy. Has some very good femdom scenes from the beginning.

Honorable mentions:
Femdom City M.A.N.T.I.S. - it's one of the best femdom games. Not placing it on the list doesn't mean it's worse than others - it just didn't have more interesting content this year. The great thing about this game is that it's sandbox with a great deal of characters and locations. Even when there are no updates, you can come back to it, play for a bit and enjoy it.
Moving Down - TBH I still haven't finished the game. It's one of the best games about a world with female supremacy.
The Renaissance - Very great start. One of rare games with femdom games with a female protagonist (there is a male protagonist as well).
Survival in Draconia - love the world the game takes place. Needs more development and less grind.
Slave U - humiliation after humiliation, it's one of the games every femdom game lover will enjoy.
The Alpha Gender - the focus is not strictly on femdom, but the muscular women, yet very nice graphics, plot and lewd scenes.

I haven't mentioned many other great games created or updated this year. The reasons are - they have been already covered by others, I haven't played them yet (looking at you K'sG & NiF) or I just couldn't remember everything o_O
 
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1. Moving Down - Brilliantly written and for some reason still deeply disturbes me which is a sign of a great work. Would make a great cult film especially the way the world has gone with this insane anti man attitude. Love all of Mirony's work, some say extreme but brilliantly put together. Love the slow psychological burn
2. Karlssons Gambit - Follows that psycho extreme femdom theme and well put together. Can't wait for the update
3. Vicious Circle - Still in development but getting scary
4. Renaissance - Sorry big Mirony fan this one is linked to Moving Down
5. Nothing is forever, Diminished and Love dealers worth a look.
Probably missed a few but if it makes everyone feel less maligned the two most searched for terms in porn now are femdom and giantess, so were all blissful weirdos.
 
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Except nobody gets shot. Thats simply a hyperbolic straw man. Guys get led on leashes, they are compelled to lick shoes, behave like dogs, sleep in cages, get pissed on, lick asses, get whipped, are penetrated by strapons, endure humiliation, bondage and torture, etc etc… all very traditional elements of fantasy female domination . Further, there are also almost zero elements of male domination, which have caused other games to be left off this list, in any of these games. Your argument consists of “I don’t like it so its not femdom.” Sorry but thats not good enough.
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It's not an hyperbolic strawman, it's an example that highlights how certain situations could feature a woman technically having power over men and still be completely unsexual or have nothing to do with the theme of female domination. To me, it is as foreign to the theme of femdom as women forcing men to be furniture, women pissing/shitting on men, women making men sleep naked in a dog cage or women making men eat dog food. To me, femdom isn't just about women committing random warcrimes on men, just like "maledom" wouldn't be about men committing random warcrimes on women. If that is how you define femdom/maledom, that's fine, but I don't agree with it.

If you could replace those women with men or those men with women, and it changes nothing about the narrative, then I would also consider this a narrative failure. Humiliation, bondage and torture are central to the theme but in the games being discussed here, as I explained, it is often done in a way that just misses the mark by being asexual. I believe it should be gendered and sexual/erogenous in nature, and therefore have a greater focus on genitals and respective gender differences. To me, the theme of femdom should present femininity as powerful and masculinity as a weakness. I think femdom in games like NiF, which isn't even a "femdom game", does a much better job with this than either vicious circle or moving down.

Women wearing strap-ons and futas aren't really femdom to me, because it is effectively women being dominant against men by trying to be men or, in the case of futas, by quite literally being men. Women penetrating men is also often used as a way to "feminize" men, which presents this idea that femininity or penetration is inherently submissive/weak, therefore(imo) completely against the idea of women being dominant(this is also why I prefer de-masculinization over feminization). The theme of women using power to dehumanize or objectify men in an asexual way is not something I consider erotic in nature, and therefore(imo) serving the theme of femdom as poorly as my airport example.

If you don't understand my argument about how these themes don't really fit my definition of femdom, that's fine, but you are still completely wrong about this narrative that it's just "I don't like it, so it's not femdom". The reality is that I don't like these things because I don't consider them to be femdom. I consider them to be more like "women doing bad things" or, at best, "femdom-adjacent".
 
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leo5298 said:
It's not an hyperbolic strawman, it's an example that highlights how certain situations could feature a woman technically having power over men and still be completely unsexual or have nothing to do with the theme of female domination. To me, it is as foreign to the theme of femdom as women forcing men to be furniture, women pissing/shitting on men, women making men sleep naked in a dog cage or women making men eat dog food. To me, femdom isn't just about women committing random warcrimes on men, just like "maledom" wouldn't be about men committing random warcrimes on women. If that is how you define femdom/maledom, that's fine, but I don't agree with it.

If you could replace those women with men or those men with women, and it changes nothing about the narrative, then I would also consider this a narrative failure. Humiliation, bondage and torture are central to the theme but in the games being discussed here, as I explained, it is often done in a way that just misses the mark. I believe it should be gendered and sexual/erogenous in nature, and therefore have a greater focus on genitals and respective gender differences. To me, the theme of femdom should present femininity as powerful and masculinity as a weakness. I think femdom in games like NiF, which isn't even a "femdom game", does a much better job with this than either vicious circle or moving down.

Women wearing strap-ons and futas aren't really femdom to me, because it is effectively women being dominant against men by trying to be men or, in the case of futas, by quite literally being men. Women penetrating men is also often used as a way to "feminize" men, which presents this idea that femininity or penetration is inherently submissive/weak, therefore(imo) completely against the idea of women being dominant(this is also why I prefer de-masculinization over feminization). The theme of women using power to dehumanize or objectify men in an asexual way is not something I consider erotic in nature, and therefore(imo) serving the theme of femdom as poorly as my airport example.

If you don't understand my argument about how these themes don't really fit my definition of femdom, that's fine, but you are still completely wrong about this narrative that it's just "I don't like it, so it's not femdom". The reality is that I don't like these things because I don't consider them to be femdom. I consider them to be more like "femdom-adjacent".
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I understand your arguments, but I disagree: D/s power dynamics doesn't need to involve actual sexual intercourse or other genital stimulation in order to be erotic.
 
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Leo Humilis said:
Just like NiF, it is not a dedicated femdom game, but has a fair amount of femdom if you make the right choices. If you like NiF, you will probably enjoy it as well.
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I'm playing atm, but sadly I have to say I don't like it at all. The plot tries too hard to be (deeply?) psychological and clever, but imo stops at trying (in the somewhat similar mind/sex games setting I def prefer Pale Carnations after my initial contact with Chess Game). The choices are scarce, everyone apart from Rose seems to be a manipulative asshole, the dialogues feel unnatural, the chess references/symbolism is too much on the nose, character models are rather ugly, clicker minigame is completelety unnecessary (why in the world do I need to play a minigame to make a choice not to kiss someone?), the MC is pretty irritating and I don't feel the tiniest connection with him. I haven't reached any femdom scenes yet (I'm during the talk with X atm), but I'm pretty much on the delete-and-forget phase with this game. For now I'll stay with NiF I guess :)

EDIT: I play with ctrl skipping (the animations are so long), and the spread of the characters and the focus is noticeable. One surprise was that I never expected to hear Laibach's song in an adult game :D Tho I heard 3 of their songs - also used without their knowledge (they actually got to know about it from me :D ) - in 2 thriller/psychological/nihilistic/softcore pinku eiga by Hisayasu Sato (Pleasure Kill and Secret Garden [released as Lolita Vibrator Torture] if someone's interested), so I guess I shouldn't be too surprised.

EDIT 2: Choose which girl you like the most by clicking on a freaking red circle 400 freaking times with your freaking mouse under a freaking minute! o_O

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Could you please tell us what kind of femdom content there is fetish-wise so far
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There's probably more since I say no to every woman apart from MC's wife (as I usually do in games with MCs already in a relationship, plus his wife is imo most attractive) and I saw only a short cunni with a bit of verbal humiliation (as a fantasy in someone's mind) and some choking.
 
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Mister_M said:
There's probably more since I say no to every woman apart from MC's wife (as I usually do in games with MCs already in a relationship, plus his wife is imo most attractive) and I saw only a short cunni with a bit of verbal humiliation (as a fantasy in someone's mind) and some choking.
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Who are you referring to as MC? There is no actual MC in this game (which is one of the things I find innovative and refreshing). Peter? He is a major character, for certain, but not what you would actually call the “main protagonist”. And well, yeah, if you play Peter as being completely faithful to his wife, you will probably miss out much of femdom content.
 
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Leo Humilis said:
Who are you referring to as MC? There is no actual MC in this game (which is one of the things I find innovative and refreshing). Peter? He is a major character, for certain, but not what you would actually call the “main protagonist”. And well, yeah, if you play Peter as being completely faithful to his wife, you will probably miss out much of femdom content.
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I wrote my msg when Peter seemed the main character. TBH he still feels that way to me, since he's the only nameable character in the game, so in my head the rest are NPCs of lesser importance. I can see that a lot of thought and work went into making the game, but unfortunately it's not for me, even if I appreciate all the movie references.
 
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Mister_M said:
I wrote my msg when Peter seemed the main character. TBH he still feels that way to me, since he's the only nameable character in the game, so in my head the rest are NPCs of lesser importance. I can see that a lot of thought and work went into making the game, but unfortunately it's not for me, even if I appreciate all the movie references.
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Well, I suppose it's not for everyone... most people seem to like self-inserting in a story as a single “MC”, and try to identify such a character in a story even if the author creates a story with multiple protagonists, never intending for any of them to be the “main protagonist” (G.R.R. Martin’s A Song of Ice and Fire is a prime example of such story). Personally, I enjoy such kind of storytelling very much, because I never felt the urge of self-inserting into a story as a single protagonist and have always found one-sided perspective somewhat boring (I might self-insert into a particular scene as a specific character, but I could never maintain such self-insertion beyond a very short story).
 
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