Which hotfix have you applied?
There should be one in the 6th page, that should be the latest one.
oh there was a separate hotfix i needed to apply? i just downloaded version 3 from the front page.
before i go and do that though i should probably describe my issue in more detail just in case.
so: knocking out the npc for the first struggle snuggle session is straightforward enough, if i get her to a certain affection then the next time i talk to her, she's non hostile and her next interaction will be 100% nonhostile. i can make small talk, and she'll consent to a roll in the hay if her love is high enough. But even if i finish that first interaction on a good note in her friendly state, she'll default back to hostile the second the menu is closed. so, the friendly state doesn't seem to be permanent. my guess is there's something missing that checks if she's supposed to attack me based on the friendliness-o-meter