i agree i don't like it when futa x male makes the guy a sissy / (other not a man implications).
i am very curious though about what you mean when you say:
"make the male too much sissy, and its ends up being too gay"
is it less gay if a more manly man gets fucked by the futa?
is the sissyfication gay?
The logic to me is: if Futas are women, then if a futa sissifies a man into acting like a woman, then she's fucking a man who is imitating a woman and thus it's significantly more gay than a futa fucking a regular man. I prefer Futas fucking regular men too but sissification is typically only hot to me when the man is already a sissy before meeting the futa, aka femboys lol.
My top two futa on male doujin:
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Top 2 Futa on femboy doujins:
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