Ok first let me clarify, I just said why I don't follow games, not that I never play them. Sometimes I may download an update of x or y game, but that's about it, I'm not interested enough in them so as to follow and wait for each update, that's all I mean.
What I mean to say is that always giving an option is wrong, there are many situations that based on the development shouldn't give additional options and to evade that content you should have chosen different options BEFORE you get there, because for example deciding to take a walk in the middle on the night while there have been reports about a killer in the neighbourhood those are really bad choices to take, doesn't need an option to ask you if the killer killed you or not. It could be a stat check at most but making it a choice fucks the mood.
This example is something that happens a lot on sex scenes, even if you take previous choices that point to that point, the game will still ask for a comfirmation at some point and making it really clear. On another point you have submissive sex scenes, in which literally giving the options to the submissive side of it is really weird. The more dominant your character is the more it makes sense to be in control, but when you are the submissive side it shouldn't still go out of your way to control it.