I feel like the title and first paragraph are kind of disconnected from the rest of the post. So, most games posted here are actual visual novels, that's true, and then what we call 'sandbox' is basically a "unlock x storyline/scene whenever and if you want to". My own biased opinion is that these games cater to a different audience, I've seen a lot of people asking for more sandbox games because they find "clicking aimlessly" boring (here comes the bias) and I believe that's due to some kind of attention deficit, there is a case to be made about preference in how the story is told, but if you just click furiously until you get to the porn often missing important context for choices (not to mention the fucking story) it's not really the game's fault that you find it boring, is it?
So on that first part I completely agree with you, as I said it could come down to preference, but confusing grinding with affecting the story is kinda dumb.
Personally I find the above mostly annoying and would rather just follow a (branching) story where you make clear choices. In the end, I play such games for the combination of story and images, as well as the possibility to have some influence on the story, which is the reason to go for a game rather than a story, comic or movie.
I also agree with this, although there is a bit more room for taste. For example, I can't play through kinetic novels, I feel like it could be resumed in a comic, book, or movie, but I wouldn't it strange if someone told me they liked them.
As for the gameplay part, I thoroughly enjoy having impacting choices (was making a more in depth post about it but my pc shut down and I lost what I had written down), even if that means having 80 branches and I only end up doing one playthrough sticking to one route, downside to that is development time, love and submission or the fate of irnia are good example for this you have fixed events like (sister getting shot / getting named hand of the queen respectively) that constitute the main story but you have a lot of freedom on the adult side of the game, and therefore it takes longer to update every storyline, I'm sure non incest loving folks are restless with tfoi based on how it prioritizes majority of fan votes.
But what I do find is that even if the gameplay is actually very good, it still somewhat distracts from the main purpose of the game.
This is a very interesting one and there's one title I wanted to tie to this and the paragraph above. General practitioner. Idk if you've played it but it's basically one of those grind games that's actually a VN with a fixed story-line and a few choices (currently) on who to pursue, also some actions have consequences, but nothing really major.
Now what I did enjoy about it was the inspection system or whatever it's called. Let me start by saying that I know jack shit about medicine and I hate going to the doctor, but I actually enjoyed the mechanic of learning some information (I wouldn't really care if it was accurate either) and practically applying it to progress in the game, like dark souls expects you to have good reflexes and unlimited patience, this game expected you to use reading comprehension and common sense. While I couldn't expect (or even want) to be a doctor after playing it and only remember about 50% of what it taught, I still remember it as a pleasurable experience.
Now, connecting it to the quote above, the dev himself calls the game an
adult game because it treats adult topics, not necessarily because of the porn, in fact, the porn (renders and scenes) is sub-par to other strictly erotic games here, and yet for me it ranks higher as a game in general. And the other content, not only carries the game to be playable, but it also occludes the erotic content
That's why I have some reservations when I see devs here going for more AAA approaches to games, just to give an example from here, Hoerizon, who I think is making a fanfuckingtastic job, was pushing for open world and gunplay, but just thinking about it, if that's the non-erotic content that's presented, why not play something like GTA or skyrim with porn mods and or then watch some higher quality porn? It's completely possible that I'm missing the big picture of what they're trying to achieve, but playing games like viking daughter (also pretty good) and looking at the porn scenes, it just makes me wonder if it's worth to put that much effort into it for it to look like honey select, sure in this case you're rendering yourself but does that really make a difference?
The best case scenario would be something like
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) where (as much as you can judge from a
patreon trailer) the gameplay aspects seem more passable, while it's not why you play a porn game for, it's still better than an rpg turn based combat system for my own taste, and they are also working towards a more "appetizing"
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. Don't get me wrong, if I sit down to play an adult game I still wouldn't appreciate grinding (although I don't mind slow pacing) but if you're rewarded with something like that it does make the other gameplay more passable when you're not really interested in it.
All in all, sorry for my ranting hope it makes sense