- Mar 8, 2018
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In real life, not interested.
In games, why not? I get to watch someone watch someone fuck.
In games, why not? I get to watch someone watch someone fuck.
General cuckold thread
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- Dec 7, 2018
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- May 19, 2017
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I think it varies wildly from person to person, irrespective of sex. Some people need lots of sex, others don't.
Personally, I think I am a bit odd, because I don't actually like participating in sex myself. But I do like watching others. I would be fine never having sex again, as long as I still had porn. (Which will make things awkward next month when the UK's porn ban starts.)
Also, I think you are being unfair to the game you posted a screenshot of. The character is presenting her personal view, coming from a place of ignorance and innocence. Part of the entire plot is her finding out how wrong she is!
The concept itself, I don't mind, but they're just so fucking boring. I had fun with it at the start but then as I saw them more and more, a good 80% of them is the exact same story. Ones that are different, are only different by adding extra fetish in to the mix. Maybe like 5%, tops, are genuinely interesting story and character. I know I'm weird for wanting enjoyable story and characters in porn, even though the main purpose of porn is just sex.
Lacks of variety in power dynamic also bore me. It's rare to find an interesting dynamic.
Lacks of variety in power dynamic also bore me. It's rare to find an interesting dynamic.
I don't recall "blaming" an entire fetish. I simply pointed out that most of it is boring. I have no problem with it, my hope is for it to be more diverse and more interesting.
And let's be real, cuckolding is not diverse. The concept alone is potentially diverse but cuckolding fans are one of a more narrowed-minded community. And that severely limits cuckolding content. I have 3 cuckold porn blogs; one non-specific(just whatever and not race focused), one blackdom and one whitedom. My whitedom blog gets the most hates, with a good 40% of that coming from people that follow my blackdom blog.
So, despite you trying to say that I "blame the entire fetish because of bad games.", I am actually into cuckolding and I don't blame the fetish, I blame the community around it for preventing the expansion of cuckolding to its full potential. And black "alpha" gets salty seeing black cuck submitting to white alpha and going around attacking people who enjoy different sub-genre, doesn't help.
Apart from that, I recently read a short gay cuckquean story and it's amazing to see a new dynamic. I'm not talking about the wife forcing her hubby into gay sex with the bull. It's the bull and the husband cucking the wife. And despite story being short, all 3 characters are well developed. If only the rest can, at least, make their story halfway decent and rely less on the cookie-cutter story, it would be great.
TL;DR. Cuckolding is a potentially interesting, potentially diverse and enjoyable fetish, but we have to allow it to be able to.
- Sep 28, 2018
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I used to know an older couple who were into swinging. Their sex life was just getting dull, so they decided to spice things up. Being with the same person for such a long time got boring; its like eating the same food all the time.
They ended up liking it. The way they described it to me was they (and the other couple(s) involved) are basically using each other as living sex toys. No emotions involved, always in the same room and they had other rules. No "intimate" kissing, no cuddling afterwards etc. You also need to be very secure in yourself and trusting of your partner. As a guy, you will eventually swing with another guy who is larger than you. As a woman, you will swing with another woman who has nicer boobs. You have to be confident and know that your partner is coming home with you. If you have a hole in your relationship, that lifestyle will find it.
Now, this couple were in their 60's, been doing this stuff for 15-20 years. I don't know if that sort of thing would be healthy for a younger couple, lets say 20-30 somethings. Older couples, in theory, have moved past their "dating stage" and are in stable long term relationships and just looking to spice things up. If a younger couple already wants to do that, that probably isn't a good sign.
I have never met any cucks though. A lot in that particular fetish seems to be based on humiliation and going behind the partners back. I'd wonder what is more common, cuckholds or cuckqueens among the willing cucks.
- Feb 6, 2018
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The only answer I can give you is that in Tenioha! Matsuri at one point shoves a huge dildo into her while phoning the MC (her boyfriend at the time, who is away on a trip) with the intent of making him jealous. And it works. And he also faps during the convo. The fact she keeps talking to the dildo like it's a lover and pretends she doesn't need the real dick as long as she has it probably helped, but still.
So, uh, I guess the answer is yes?
- Aug 22, 2018
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Then nearly every guy, and lesbian, is being cucked cos a lot of us own toys we use when we're alone.
If using sex toys is cucking someone then all the guys here with wives/girlfriends/fuck buddies that say they aren't cucks ... are.
That's a weird one to me. Masturbation is a pretty common thing. Guys do it, we do it, don't see how that's cucking.
Although if you get sex advice from anime/hentai I have no words for that.
- Feb 6, 2018
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This was a tongue-in-cheek reply to a joke question (though the scene in the game is framed as NTR because the girl is a manipulative little brat) but do note there are people out in the wild who genuinely believe you are cucked if your SO masturbates.
If you take the argument to the extreme, then fapping while watching porn is also cheating on your partner. Because you are likely thinking of someone else than your partner while doing it, as well as enjoying a sex act without your partner.
I'm here so I don't agree with that argument but I know people who do.
I've never understood the appeal of cuckhold for a guy. I can see why a woman would like it, for the same reason I like cuckqueen stuff (on the rare occasions I can actually find any). I'm a guy. I'd be the one getting some extra action in that scenario. But I don't see why a woman would be into it unless she gets off on being jealous.
Swinger and wife swap makes more sense to me since both of them are getting some action. Same with an open relationship. It wouldn't appeal to me but I could see the appeal of both people saying ok I want to have some extra fun on the side so it's only fair that you can as well. I don't see much point in having the relationship at all if it's open though. Why not just hook up with whoever you want and not bother with the baggage of a relationship? If you're both swingers then it makes more sense because you probably actually get off on watching each other fuck other people in addition to whatever side action you're getting yourself.
Swinger and wife swap makes more sense to me since both of them are getting some action. Same with an open relationship. It wouldn't appeal to me but I could see the appeal of both people saying ok I want to have some extra fun on the side so it's only fair that you can as well. I don't see much point in having the relationship at all if it's open though. Why not just hook up with whoever you want and not bother with the baggage of a relationship? If you're both swingers then it makes more sense because you probably actually get off on watching each other fuck other people in addition to whatever side action you're getting yourself.
- May 19, 2017
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It depends on the size / capabilities of the toys. If your significant other seems to enjoy their toy more than you, it can make some people jealous even if they don't admit it. If you're feeling mean, you can use your toy in front of them and make them feel like you don't need them anymore. They might pretend it doesn't bother them saying "what matters is your happiness, i'm pleased as Punch to see you enjoying yourself" but deep down they are crushed.
Some people focus on themselves during sex, but a good lover focuses on their partner.
If you just want to get off, you can do that quickly, but if you want to last more than three minutes, cumming should be the furthest thing from your mind. Some people do math in their head, or other things to distract themselves from finishing too quickly, when they could be focused on pleasing their partner and accomplish the same goal.
A common misconception about Trolls is that they get off pushing peoples' buttons. Where's the logic in that?
- Aug 22, 2018
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Not all people feel jealous when their partners sleep around.
I have a friend that likes to watch her husband fuck other women but she has practically no sex drive at all. She wants to fuck once every few months so lets her fella do as he pleases as long as she can watch.
She doesn't get jealous, she see's the girls as little more than moving sex dolls. She knows he won't leave her.
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Umm, I can't imagine I let my girl have sex with someone else. But I do enjoy preparing her with provocative dressing and drop her to roam crowded public places or transports with it, without me around. And I ask her story after. Is this considered cuckold play? Or voyeurism?
Maybe it's not technically cuckold because she isn't having sex with someone else.
But I do think it can be dangerous and would advise against it.
Sooner or later some asswipe may get the wrong idea.