Recommending Harems, Pregnancies, and Mind Control - Tiiisha's Kink List

[Tiiisha]

Another question I have for the general community, how should I define harems? The strictest definition would be like you're officially together with multiple girls and they're all aware and (probably) fine with it and each other, but it's rare that games come to such a clean ending, it's often times somewhat dubious.

A few times in the list I mention "soft" harems where the player fucks and/or has access to multiple girls consistently, and it "feels" harem-ish enough. However, if I were to use that definition, I would also have to include games where you just go around fucking various unrelated girls such as this breeding game or this tentacle rape game, which are both tagged as harem, or this pokemon parody, which isn't tagged as harem, but is essentially in the same boat as the previous two.

In this example, I would call the breeding and pokemon game soft-haremy, while I definitely wouldn't classify the tentacle one as a harem game, purely off of vibes.
Edit - After playing the tentacle game, all 3 would qualify as harem hmm

Secondly, although I can't think of any specific examples right now, would games where you essentially capture girls and impregnate them (there have been a few goblin games like that I believe) count as soft-harem enough? My vibe check would say no in this case

Should I continue just vibe-checking these tags or should I try to find some better strict definition?

 

[Tiiisha]

Another question I have for the general community, how should I define harems?

After some thought I've come up with this, it's still mostly vibe checking but I tried my best to give a definition

The best I can pin down my definition of harem would be in the tags means a traditional full harem, or close enough,

while a would mean

(a) You have access to variety of girls and can interact with them all multiple times each throughout the game (or at least implied), the multiple times requirement is waived for short games

and at least one of
(b) They are all at least somewhat aware of each other, although they do not need to know of / accept a harem relationship during the game
(c) They're all mind controlled anyways, so even if the game itself doesn't directly portray a harem relationship, it might as well be ("harem" + MC passes the vibe check)
(d) The ending / some ending of the game has a full traditional harem ending even if it wasn't depicted during the actual playthrough of the game

BUT NOT
(e) You're forcibly holding them captive and they're aware of it (rape + "harem" + preg + no MC does not pass the vibe check)

harem tag will qualify a game for the list


why am i being so goddamn bureaucratic in this extremely definitely-cant-show-my-friends-or-family recommendation list on this porn game piracy site? I got no fucking clue