So I gave the game a proper playthrough, this time reading everything and stuff.
Dominance and Hatred are two completely different dialogue options. I don't think you need hatred at all to choose dominance options options.
Dominance (yes this is a different one) is strictly related to the girls. And it doesn't clash with Love especially considering you can grind both of them daily while playing around in the sandbox.
That said, for Hinata's scenes with the guards and such, you don't need to be evil (hatred). On the 7th day you get multiple different options.
At the start you can either choose the evil option, and just watch them take her. Or step in. If you choose to step in you get a love choice, an evil choice, and a dominance choice. The love choice is just giving them money. The dominance choice isn't Boruto being evil, it's just showing his assertiveness, like the game says. They still take her regardless in both love and dominance choices. And the evil choice is him thinking about how he can benefit from whats happening, likely going to lead to demanding favors from Hinata in order to give her money so she doesn't get fucked.
During the scenes with the lord, it solely depends on how Hinata reacts to him. If she's defiant you get the scene where she prostrates in front of him and the guards come from behind her and see her exposed. If you gave them money however you're locked out of that scene regardless what choices you make as Hinata during that event. So basically I reckon the only way Hinata will get fucked by them is if you don't give them money. I assume the "strength" attribute that will be added later will also play a part in this, in case you don't have money I guess.
Love will lead to romance/lovey dovey scenes.
Dominance for the girls will probably lead to scenes with rough sex that are still consensual.
Dominance for Boruto will just be him not being a coward.
Hatred is probably him just raping everyone.