Patreon doesn't list our games in searches. You can try subreddits like r/lewdgames, but most of the games on there that don't make it here, also get abandoned. r/lewdgames doesn't seem to get much traffic, in my experience, I didn't even advertise TTWDFL there because I hadn't seen much if any use.
When it comes to finding new games to play, I usually either make a Games Suggestions request, or play something from a dev I like, for instance, when Luxee came out with Apartment69. Also I take a look at some suggestions on luxee's Parental Love discord, mostly from klx, and I've found a few ok games that way, The Red Room, Cure My Addiction, Harem Hotel, and Mythic Manor are all games I played on his suggestoin. Also downloaded Secrets because he suggested it, but haven't gotten around to playing it... models are all a bit more thicc than I'd like.