How do you guys manage the uh, “limitations of the flesh”?

[WOMANpukumaru]

I don’t want to “transcend my limits” nd be numb and sore for several days after,
but I also don’t want to take several months to complete one game.

If a game has a bunch of scenes close together, ya know I have one issue but I have an entirely different issue if it has a bunch of story content to get through, i. Again, if I don’t want to take several months.

A couple scenes at a time? Make story progress and come back later?

It’s gotten to the point where sometimes I minimize the screen during scenes but that kinda…removes the context a bit.

I haven’t come up with a consistent uh…plan here. So I end up with a bunch ofpartially completed games on backlog.

 

[Deleted member 229118]

Play on till bored.
Save and quit then play again when i am in the mood.
I rarely come from the scence's anyway.
It gets me on edge but never over it.

It also isnt healthy i jerk of 12-18 times a day.
I am going find a way to reduce that.

 

[WOMANpukumaru]

Yeah that’s what I’m trying to avoid. I don’t want to be numb and sore and soft.

It must take a lot of conditioning to get up to 12 a day….that’s kinda crazy.

…18?!

 

[Meaning Less]

Basically edging.

Avoid cumming and just slow down a bit and you can go on for hours long sessions. Cumming multiple times makes you tired but extending your sessions for longer doesn't.

I usually have the opposite problem especially with western games that tend to be very short, the content ends before I'm done so I always have multiple games ready to go to avoid stopping midway.

 

[Deleted member 229118]

Yeah that’s what I’m trying to avoid. I don’t want to be numb and sore and soft.

It must take a lot of conditioning to get up to 12 a day….that’s kinda crazy.

…18?!

Not really.
I had it since i was a child.
I gotten good at dealing with it quickly.
Its an anoying distraction.

 

[WOMANpukumaru]

Basically edging.

Avoid cumming and just slow down a bit and you can go on for hours long sessions. Cumming multiple times makes you tired but extending your sessions for longer doesn't.

I usually have the opposite problem especially with western games that tend to be very short, the content ends before I'm done so I always have multiple games ready to go to avoid stopping midway.

The thing with that is with short games is that it can kinda make things go too fast, lol. Like, issuing an entire game for one hours long session seems kind of a waste, but eh.

with long games, the problem with edging is it could go for an hour or more without anything and you ought have to play minigames and shit lol

 

[Meaning Less]

with long games, the problem with edging is it could go for an hour or more without anything and you ought have to play minigames and shit lol

Well most adult games especially the longer ones are designed with at least several teasing elements here and there to keep you edging and imagining what is to come or thinking about what has transpired.

Minigames are also another good way to edge, they give you a cooldown time from one scene to another to avoid things becoming too intense.

There is a reason why games are designed this way, with the most explicit content down the road and usually with some cooldown in between them, because the buildup for each scene is very important and if you go too fast it just becomes porn.

 

[WOMANpukumaru]

Well most adult games especially the longer ones are designed with at least several teasing elements here and there to keep you edging and imagining what is to come or thinking about what has transpired.

Minigames are also another good way to edge, they give you a cooldown time from one scene to another to avoid things becoming too intense.

There is a reason why games are designed this way, with the most explicit content down the road and usually with some cooldown in between them, because the buildup for each scene is very important and if you go too fast it just becomes porn.

Maybe this is true for you…for me,

Doing a block puzzle with a raging boner ready to burst is real boner killer. Being engrossed in a conversation about the death of a girl’s parents is too. The excitement tends to wane and I end up just kinda waiting for a release that kinda feels like getting it over with..

I don’t know, maybe there’s some truth to this and I’m doing it wrong. Or it’s just one more thing to consider

 

[desmosome]

You need to up your coomer level. The vast majority of these games are not actually fappable. They are either vanilla as fuck with no eroticism, or the scenes are just too short and end in a few clicks. They are really just adult stories.

 

[Meaning Less]

I don’t know, maybe there’s some truth to this and I’m doing it wrong. Or it’s just onemore thing to consider

Well I mean its the way longer games are designed to be played.

Like you noticed if you keep cumming too soon it could take weeks to finish a long game.

Just approach these games with the opposite mentality, try not to cum as much as you can. This usually not only increases your fap time but makes you sessions much more satisfying in my opinion.

You know those games that have a pleasure meter? Imagine one of those for yourself and try to stay under 60% first, then 70% and keep slowly ramping it to a point that you can still return from without a ruined orgasm.
Practice makes perfect, the more you do it the longer you can go and the closer to 99% you can edge without cumming.

There is a reason why galleries and savepoints exist, because once you finally complete a game you can still go back to the gallery and reminesce of the best scenes to then reach 100%.

 

[Deleted member 440241]

It also isnt healthy i jerk of 12-18 times a day.

Definitely not healthy. If I do 7 in a day I'm sore for at least 24 hours. And I haven't done that many in one day since I was a teenager. Play normal video games, read a book, touch grass, or anything else that'll get your hand off your junk.

I don’t want to “transcend my limits” nd be numb and sore for several days after,
but I also don’t want to take several months to complete one game.

If a game has a bunch of scenes close together, ya know I have one issue but I have an entirely different issue if it has a bunch of story content to get through, i. Again, if I don’t want to take several months.

A couple scenes at a time? Make story progress and come back later?

It’s gotten to the point where sometimes I minimize the screen during scenes but that kinda…removes the context a bit.

I haven’t come up with a consistent uh…plan here. So I end up with a bunch ofpartially completed games on backlog.

Are you cumming to every sex scene? I just let my orgasm build gradually until either time or a really hot scene pushes me over the edge. Then I can call it a day and go back to the game tomorrow. If the game isn't doing it for me I can always switch to pure fap material and crank something out quickly just to get the release.

 

[Deleted member 229118]

Definitely not healthy. If I do 7 in a day I'm sore for at least 24 hours. And I haven't done that many in one day since I was a teenager. Play normal video games, read a book, touch grass, or anything else that'll get your hand off your junk.

Yeah the doctor said that the avarage is 3 times per week.
I was(and still am) shocked to learn just how little men jerk off.
I have been trying to distract myself and manage too bring it down to 4-6 times a day but that is still too much.
Related.
I dont think i ever felt sore.
Only reason i knew something was wrong was because i had to piss like a billizion times a day and the doctor thought that was the cause.
Overstimulation i think he called it.

 

[Pretentious Goblin]

Trainers are pretty much ideal for long edging sessions (unless you find the early parts boring I guess). VNs, maybe not so much.

 

[Loganfin]

I have long been a guy who edged myself, rather than try to cum quickly. Even before I knew that was a thing. When I was young, I'd go for at least two hours, and often three, hard as a rock the entire time, and then just have a massive release when i was ready (or sometimes when I wasn't). I found that the more stimulated I was, the bigger and more pleasurable the eventual ejaculation was, and it felt so awesome in my balls and just leave me pleasurably exhausted for a while. Back then, I was just always horny, and so it wasn't just easy, but almost necessary to jerk off that way twice a day on average, or sometimes three times. Up to five or six when I was a teen. But that was all before porn games were really a thing, so it was to a combination of vids, pics and erotic stories or comics. Usually two at a time that I would switch between.

These days, getting older, its not quite so easy. I don't usually get hard like turning on a switch, so its a gradual build up. But getting myself off still feels great, so what I often do is play a game featuring real porn, such as Venus Club which gets me going and really aroused, and then switch over to a story based game and play as long as I feel like it or am able before I shoot off. Usually more like 90 minutes these days instead of three hours. I certainly find that games that feature interaction between the player and the sex partners make me hornier on a long-term continous level than straightforward VNs do. If its just story, especially if there are long parts that aren't erotic, its not exactly easy to maintain an erection for ages. Games where I can pursue different women and level up my interactions with them are the absolute best. Switch between and bounce back and forth.

 

[fyl3toys]

ALL DAY ERR DAY

 

[rk-47]

I would say dont masturbate when you play h games, you may get an erection but keep it in there, if you start jerking off you will be tempted to cum and get it over and done with, but i also understand your frustration, sometimes i wanna just play a h game without getting turned on by it but that is obviously going to happen
i would also say if you want to, rapidly click thru h scenes or skip them outright, then watch them back in cg gallery or reloading a save if you want to see it

 

[Glib_Gentleman]

Basically edging.

Avoid cumming and just slow down a bit and you can go on for hours long sessions.

Yeah, I thought everyone that played porn games was edging.

I'm honestly fascinated that the OP seems to think jerking to completion with every sex scene is normal.

I'll edge the whole time I'm playing a porn game, and either build to a finish for a particular sexy scene, or not come at all. The eroticism is what does it for me, and if it isn't working, I'll just save the game and use some actual porn to get off.

 

[WOMANpukumaru]

I haven’t exactly been comparing notes with other men on how to get off, maybe that’s the weird thing.

 

[Glib_Gentleman]

I haven’t exactly been comparing notes with other men on how to get off, maybe that’s the weird thing.

Don't have to compare notes. I think any guy that has masturbated often enough, and frequently enough, naturally discovers edging.

Guess it does take long periods of privacy though, so depending on living situations, a guy might get in the habit of sneaking quick sessions and never move on to edging.

But anyway, the answer to your original question is edging. Just learn edging.

As a bonus, it can really improve your stamina in the bedroom.

 

[WOMANpukumaru]

I know how to edge, of course lol. I was just poking fun at the implication that there is a proper procedure to jerking to porn Agnes that is common knowledge lol

But the problems I mention earlier still apply. I’ve done what you’re suggesting, and it doesn’t work for me.