I just wish they'd pick a lane. It's one thing to say "We're going to ban this kink because we can" and quite another to say "We're going to ban this kink because we can AND ALSO NO ONE CAN EVER SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT ANYONES' GROTESQUE FETISHES BECAUSE THIS IS A SAFESPACE FOR WEIRDO SICKFUCKS AND THEIR WEIRDO SICKFUCK FANTASIES!!!1!"
They picked the lane many years ago and explained why the aforementioned content is more highly regulated on this site than other content. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean they haven't done it.
Of all the content, it is the one that attracts the most attention that may cause problems with the site remaining operable. Such content brings increased scrutiny from outside forces which compromises the site due to DDoS attacks, harassing host companies to end server allocation for the site, and other entities interested in finding ways to restrict the capabilities of this site through legal means.
It's not about kink shaming, it's about viability aiming. I mean, you keeping coming on this site and interacting with people on it... Obviously, you have some interest in the staff maintaining the site's presence and operability.