i'm starting to hate ntr/netorare... or should i say porn in general :(

[Geigi]

Is there a correlation between Softcore stuff(Fifty Shades of Grey) and Hardcore(EG: NTR)? I know lots of Incels state that NTR is female-centric, simply putting basis on this notion alone, yet there is no source to support this claim outside of this as far as I'm aware.

I've heard that claim too, that NTR itself is female orientated and I also found nothing concrete in terms of data. How they are deducing that I have no idea, but I prefer some hard data or logical deduction to be honest.

Maybe because of the rivalry? While men like harem, women like love triangle. FMC and two main male characters(usually good guy and a bad guy)trying to court her and win her over and she likes them both, but have to choose in the end. Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, etc.

 

[Dryme]

I AM NOT TRYING TO SHAME YOU!!

 

[Dryme]

Maybe because of the rivalry? While men like harem, women like a love triangle. FMC and two main male characters(usually good guy and bad guy)trying to court her and win her over and she likes them both, but have to choose in the end. Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, etc.

This includes cheating, so one doesn't interfere with the other.

 

[Dryme]

Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, etc.

Buffy....

 

[Geigi]

Buffy....

Watched as a teen, never finished it. Also, The Hunger Games.

 

[Icarus Media]

Maybe because of the rivalry? While men like harem, women like love triangle. FMC and two main male characters(usually good guy and a bad guy)trying to court her and win her over and she likes them both, but have to choose in the end. Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, etc.

Good point. Reminds me a little of:

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I've read it, it conjectures that subconsciously women pit men against each other to ascertain the more viable genetics, but that it manifest consciously as the love triangle and deciding which one to choose out of two she likes in the end.

 

[Geigi]

Good point. Reminds me a little of:

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I've read it, it conjectures that subconsciously women pit men against each other to ascertain the more viable genetics, but that it manifest consciously as the love triangle and deciding which one to choose out of two she likes in the end.

Omg, this reminds me of a fish that fakes orgasm.

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[ventebanger]

i don’t even know where to start with this, but i just need to get this off my chest. i feel like i’m reaching a point where i don’t just dislike ntr, but porn as a whole is starting to feel... off. like, i used to think it was just ntr that pissed me off. the whole idea of betrayal, manipulation, and just watching someone get humiliated like that, it stopped feeling like "just a fetish" to me and started feeling gross. it’s weird because i never really thought that deeply about it before, but now, every time i see it, it just ruins my mood completely.

but then i started realizing, it's not just ntr. the more i look at porn in general, the more it starts feeling... empty? repetitive? fake? idk how to describe it, but it’s like i’ve become aware of how hollow it all is. at first, it was just the usual burnout yk? when you’ve seen too much, and nothing really excites you anymore. but now, it’s like i see through it. like, i see how exploitative it is, how disconnected it makes me feel, how it messes with expectations and reality.

i'm not saying this as some "porn is evil" moral crusade or whatever. i don’t judge anyone who watches it, and i’m not suddenly some enlightened monk or anything. but i can't shake this feeling that it's just not... good for me anymore. like, instead of making me feel satisfied, it just leaves me feeling worse. idk, maybe i'm just overthinking it. maybe it's just a phase. or maybe i'm just realizing something i wasn’t ready to admit before.

Doper becomes self-aware and voices out in a drug den?? Bold... or desperate...
I have no advice for you but I hope you find some peace.

 

[Icarus Media]

Omg, this reminds me of a fish that fakes orgasm.

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The differences are rather fascinating, so many things we take for granted and assume in the other are completely opposite. i once read in Why men lie and women cry by Barbara & Alan pease things which surprised me. Like why men flick through TV channels, only hear what they want to hear, why they can't just listen and have to give solutions etc etc and it's a really good one for some of that stuff.

Like talking, they cite figures that men per day will have between 4,000 to 8,000 words to say, women will have 12,000 to 16,000 depending on how talkative the man or woman is will affect which end of these numbers they are. But they explain why it is that men think women are scatterbrained and can't get to the point and why women think men are uncaring and not listening during a conversation (and offering solutions!), there's a difference in even why and how we talk! And we take it for granted that our talking is the same.

Fascinating stuff.

Anyway, got to make some soup, on the liquids since I had a tooth out Tuesday.

 

[Dryme]

Anyway, got to make some soup, on the liquids since I had a tooth out Tuesday

At the local straight bar?

 

[Icarus Media]

At the local straight bar?

At the Dentist, you have Dentist in Russia right? Or is just popping to the local bar and saying "Sergei, here is 14,000 ruples, punch me in mouth comrade".

 

[Dryme]

At the Dentist, you have Dentist in Russia right? Or is just popping to the local bar and saying "Sergei, here is 14,000 ruples, punch me in mouth comrade".

I hope I will never stop laughing at your offensive stereotypes about Russia

 

[Icarus Media]

I hope I will never stop laughing at your offensive stereotypes about Russia

Da, stereotypes exist for reason moya drug, vbi ponimayoo tovarish?
(Yes, "" "" "" "" my friend, you understand comrade?)

Bloody Gopniks, must have run out of Kvass.....

 

[Dryme]

Da, stereotypes exist for reason moya drug, vbi ponimayoo tovarish?
(Yes, "" "" "" "" my friend, you understand comrade?)

Bloody Gopniks, must have run out of Kvass.....

Have you even been to Russia?

 

[Icarus Media]

Have you even been to Russia?

Would like to, I'm learning the language after all. Always liked the idea of visiting Murmansk, maybe Vladivostok. None of the usual tourist places like Moscow or St. Petersburg. Can't go now though, I think they've stopped travel but I'd have to check.

 

[Icarus Media]

Is there anything in this stupid book why white chicks prefer to fuck with dogs instead of men?

Knot that I know.

 

[Dryme]

Would like to, I'm learning the language after all

Not the best language to learn. And why would you want to learn another language? The whole world speaks your language.

 

[Icarus Media]

Not the best language to learn. And why would you want to learn another language? The whole world speaks your language.

It's the challenge of it. Language learning depending on the language can be easy to difficult, Russian is not that hard for an English speaking compared to say Japanese, Mandarin or the worst one: Hungarian.

 

[Dryme]

It's the challenge of it. Language learning depending on the language can be easy to difficult, Russian is not that hard for an English speaking compared to say Japanese, Mandarin or the worst one: Hungarian.

Then you probably know French.

 

[Icarus Media]

Then you probably know French.

Hell no!